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Help...in love with my best friend...
I need help… I’m in love with my best friend… We’ve been friends since we were 8 I have grown up with this girl. she’s the type of girl every guy wants she’s cute and funny and thoughtful… But she hates it all of her guy friends have a crush on her too. she helped me thru a lot and I help her too she’s going thru a hard time so we talk a lot. she hates relationships and doesn’t believe in love her dad used to hurt her, she doesn’t trust anyone and says I’m like a brother to her… I’ve loved her since high school… Help me…?
Oh wow. I’m sorry. You’re in my old situation. I was in love with my best friend, but he lived about 5 hours away for most of that friendship. He only stayed summers in my city. We were attracted to each other, and we fooled around a few times, but it took me six years to have sex with him. By then it was too late, and things couldn’t go any further for us. We hardly talk now at all. I suppose that the only thing I can really tell you is to just be there for her. If she calls you with her problems before anyone else, that is a good sign. If you are the main guy that she confides everything in, you have a chance of turning this in to more. A girl will generally only want comfort from one guy. At least I did. See even when I was in serious relationships, I always called my best friend, because he was my everything. Don’t get me wrong, I loved the person I was in the relationship with, but I was in love with my best friend. Believe me, I feel your pain!!! It is the worst torture in the world to be in the “friend box” when you want to be in the significant other role. However, the way I saw it then was that I’d rather just have him in my life as a friend than to push a relationship and possibly lose him forever. I loved him enough to torture myself with only friendship just to be close to him. Tragic, I know. Back to you though because guys hate the mushy stuff =). My advice to you is to put yourself in situations with her where things could progress. Invite her out to dinner and you pay, but don’t call it a date. If she needs a date to an event, then offer to go with her. Do little things for her that show you care without going too overboard. When you know she’s having a hard day, bring her something that you know she loves like her favorite candy. Make those little gestures that show her that you are there when she needs you. Show her that no one knows her better than you, and really put yourself out there for her. I’m not saying that it will end the way you want it to…you could put all this effort in and get heartbroken, or it could take years for her to realize that she loves you. What I’m trying to say is that the “what ifs” will kill you if you don’t do everything in your power to make the most of what you have with her. Things will progress how they must, but you should do all you can either way. Good luck, and let me know how it goes! If you need any suggestion on nice things to do for her, just send me some mail, and I’ll help you out.
OH!!! I forgot to mention the most important detail!!! My friend who I was in love with, as it turns out, was in love with me too, but we didn’t find all this out until too late. Don’t make that mistake. If she flirts with you, even jokingly, pay attention. Pay attention to everything she does around you. Very rarely do females make the first move…so she could be waiting for you to do that. Don’t be ignorant about any signs she might be trying to give you. If yall cuddle when you watch movies, or you hug and she doesn’t mind being held longer than normal, then that’s a great sign!!! If she calls you for no reason other than she just wanted to talk about nothing in particular, that means she was just really wanted to talk to you. All of these are good for you. =) Sorry lol, but I could go on forever about this particular subject since its taken up about a decade of my life. =)
I think that if you really love her you’ll feel that way in a few years and you will evntually move on if she doesnt feel the same way be honest and ask her!!! and maybe you will hook up but this is now and thats the future
I fell your pain man. im in love with this girl and she lives neer me but she just moved out of my school. as she was leving we fell out and now I dont know what to do [note saying sorry, saying sorry ect.] also we would play out together aone and I think she might have liked me but I dont know. I used to like her but I stopped because she upset me. shes never gone out with me but when I stopped liking her she looked upset. bye the way im a young teen in year 8 {[england]. :) help me aswell if you can. :)
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