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How do I get over my ex?

my ex really confuses me, i am currently in another relationship but i cant help but think about my ex. i meet him from time to time for a drink n chat and whenever im with him i feel like we are together, we cuddle and i kiss and i consider breaking up with my boyfriend to get back with him. he is so nice when we are together but then when i leave him i dont speak to him for ages, i think he is just leading me on. but i cant help but fall for him even more. i love my boyfriend but i think i am faling in love with my ex even tho he doesnt feel the same. he said he does have feelings for me and that he loves it when we are together, i think its down to his friends aswell as they ent the nicest of people. help!!! how do i get over him. and wot do i do for the best? stay with my boyfriend of 2 years and block out my feelings or throw wot i have away on something that might not last???

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Answer #1

You need to prioritize…

You’ve been saying you can’t get over your ex; well, I think the REAL problem is: You’re in a relationship with someone who has cheated on you repeatedly, and for some reason, you’re still with him.

You say you’re not strong enough to leave him. Meaning what? Do you mean at some point, your self esteem has been whittled down by someone or something so severely, that you can’t make logical decisions? Are you afraid to be alone? Well guess what? YOU ARE ALONE! Your current relationship is a void, it has no future, neither does your happiness if you stay where you are.

GET OUT… NOW.

P.S – Someone else probably ought to ‘sugar-coat’ my advice.

Answer #2

my and my current boyfriend now werent together when i kissed my ex. whenever iv met my ex whilst being in a relationship nothing physical has happened but i like him. the only reason we split up is cuz we didnt rele c each other as much as we shud of, not cuz anything went wrong. and also my curent bf has cheated on me endless amounts of times but i cant walk away. im not that strong

Answer #3

Dear sweet_sexi, First thing your EX is playing you big time. They call them EXs because they are over, in the past, finished. You need to make sure you don’t see him…ever, You set yourself up by allowing yourself to cuddle and kiss; and now your playing your boyfriend. Stop and think of why you broke off with the Ex in the first place…nothings changed. While you still have a chance, stop seeing the Ex, cut all ties and start being a worth partner to your boyfriend. Sue…good luck

Answer #4

How about you stop seeing him, and stop cheating on your current boyfriend? How’s THAT for obvious?

Answer #5

sigh

Then all I can suggest is… counseling… LOTS of counseling…

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