Should I bring up being in a relationship?

So me and ex-boyfriend hungout yesterday.It was very good.We didn’t bring up about being back in a relationship.Fact about us is we both are the type of person who hate to make the first move.Back to the point…We made plans for Wednesday.Should I bring up being in a relationship?That’s not it.He’s leaveing for the marines in september.So if I brought up being in a relationship I’d have to have something to prove to him that I will always be faithful and never leave him.

Soo… How’s this sound?…

I know your leaveing in september.But I really miss the relationship we’ve shared.I know it’s going to be hard.But I know in the end after all this marine stuff is over.It will be worth it.I do believe we can make it work out.Trust me,I’d do anything to make it work out.Cause being with you is the best thing to me.Yes we’re younge,But why not start out a young life time together.I’m in love with you…

Answer #1

learn to look at the positives. I repeat. it’ll help you a lot ! I’m teling you, let him go, if he’s meant for you, no force will stop him. just leave everything on God, if you believe in him/her. :)

P:S - be happy always :D ( read Many lives, Many masters by Dr. brian weiss, will give you a positive outlook, helped me too.)

Answer #2

thanks soo muchhh girlll, your really good at advice. I stoppped trying to force it. and he’s calling me now. and wanting to make things work out. :) :) :) I’ve just been texting him for a past few days bringing up old times and that I hope his day is going well. And he called me today and was like why aint you asking me to come over and stuff? and I was like I just realized I cant force it anymore, if its meant to be it will find a way. I know you think I shouldn’t but I know he means it now that I realized to take one day at a time. :)

Answer #3

He’s going to the Marines for four years.

Answer #4

I can’t get over him. Like really I normally get over things in two months. But this one time we broke up for five months. And I didn’t get over him at all. Cause I really been stped on by a lot of guys and use just go for looks. But now I’m completely in love with him cause he’s wonderful.Treats me good.

Answer #5

seriously, ask yourself. 4 years? do you think that’s practical? I think you should take a break, hang out with some other people, try to discover other options. it’s a matter of 4 years right ? if you love him you’ll wait. if not, move on, you’ve got other options. but I think just tell him how you feel before he leaves, then you won’t have the What if.. factor in your head. remember something.

if you love something or someone, let it go, if it’s meant to be it’ll come back to you. that should explain you things. :)

Answer #6

it’s hard. mines going to london. FOREVER. I ended on a bad note. atleast you have an advantage here. it’s hard, but look in 2 months time I found mr. goatee again :) . and I do remember my ex, sometimes, but he taught me a lot in life and I’m thankful. learn to see the positives. :)

P:S - check my question page. I’ve asked you a question.

Answer #7

I don’t think that’s right. if he’s going let h im go, if he loves you he’ll come back to you. I’m sure of that. one question, he’s going away forever>?

Answer #8

I just can’t let go…

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