He wants me back

He wants to take advantage of you knowing you feel bad easily? He is not a nice person then. So, in turn, dont feel bad when you tell him - NO. You simply dont want to date him. He will get over it eventually. That is life. We all have to deal with rejection from time to time.

I asked him what made me any different from other girls.

because… well hes always got girls all over him. and hes kinda popular and im a video game nerd… so I cant understand why hed want me back, and he said its because I was different. the way I smiled and laughed and acted…

but me and him were so different

because now im super happy with my own video game nerd!

th only thing I had in common was our love for robot chicken and sex XP

You have nothing to feel guilty about, he ended it with you. However he has feelings so just try and break it to him gently that you have moved on and are in a happy reltionship. If you don’t trust yourself talking to him. I suggest you cut off any contact. Cheating (as you have already discovered will only make this situation worse.

Good luck with everything.

In life, everything as a price. Unfortunately for u, is to loose someone you like to talk, and who understands u. But if you want to live a happy life, you have to let the “stoner” go. Don´t speak to him, don´t nothing. Be radical, or else you will spend the rest of your life stuck whit guys like him. you seem like a good person, don´t make mistakes that will scar you for life. Be Happy!

he lives close to me. but it makes me feel bad.

hes.. I don’t know 15? hes in the same grade as me…

he knows I feel bad easily. and I think he wants to take advantage of it…

I love talking to him. and I told him I was happy with the guy im with now… and it sounded like he was mad… but I love talking… <=(

You seem to have already made your decision that you do not want him back. He’s messaging you on myspace? Big deal. Does he live near you? Is he a stalker type? How old is he now? Is he still in high school? He’s young, as are you. He will get over it. People break up. Relationships come and go.

You have to say “Hi, I’m sorry it didn’t work out between us, but I am moving on. I wish you the best!!” End of story

I’m betting on that it was the sex…

No matter how much you love talking to him, you need to CUT ALL TIES. Ex’s really dont serve a purpose in our lives anymore after the relationship ends, and the fact that he wants you back is the reason you should STOP talking to him! Your ex needs to stop living in the past, and move on just like you have. Dont be flattered that he wants you back, chances are he cant get anyone else, and most likely knows from experience that he can have you. If you are happy with your current relationship, then ignoring his messages are what you need to do. I really dont think your boyfriend would be too happy about you wanting to keep talking to your ex knowing he wants you back.

You obviously want to stay with the boy you are with now. Just forget about the other guy. It could be hard, and make you feel bad. But doesn’t it also make you feel bad that you feel like he’s wanting to take advantage of you feeling bad easily ? You can’t always make everybody happy, I have learned that. If he seemed mad that you are happy with your current boyfriend, he apparently doesn’t want you to be happy. He should be understanding, and if he seriously wanted you that bad, then he’d wait til you wanted back with him to. And if he doesn’t feel like waiting, he wasn’t worth it. Seriously, with this kind of situation, do what makes you happy. Your happy with your current boyfriend, but you love talking to your -ex. If you love talking to him, then tell him that you don’t want him back right now that you’re happy with your boyfriend now, and if he can’t understand and let you be happy. Then why does he even want back with you. Has he told you why he’s wanted back with you ? And have you thought that he has only one thing in mind. I mean, I could be wrong - I don’t know the kid. But you seriously have to set down the law with your -ex.