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He has another boyfriend in other country

I have met this great guy, and we started hanging out a lot. He is from another country, and has a boyfriend there. He lives most of the time in the US, and we spend a lot of time together. We have become so close, and he tells me how happy I have made him, and I make him happier than his boyfriend in the other country. Things have become serious between us, but he is very conflicted because of the other person who is thousands of miles away. When we are sleeping together and he pulls me close, I feel like we belong together and it was meant to be. Or when we are talking about life, he is the only one I see in my future, and when we dance, I am just so into him. I do not know what to do. When we go out, I get all giddy inside and excited… and I feel like nothing else matters when we are together. He feels the same. What do I do? Do I accept he has a boyfriend in another country?

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Answer #1

its either the other guy or you it cant be both and hes already cheating on thes other guy if hes spending time like that with you tell him he has to choose you shouldnt have to accept that hes taken, because if your both in love, he wouldnt be…only taken with you. not 2 people talk to him, and make sure you get a straight answer the sooner the better

Answer #2

if he felt the same way he would be with you.

he’s taken. understand? if he had any feelings for you don’t you think you guys would be together? he’s using you. tell him straight up, “if you want to continue to be with me then you have to make a choice.” it doesn’t matter how much you THINK he likes you, or what a great connection you THINK you have.. the fact is he’s sleeping with you, AND his boyfriend. you may be into him, but the only thing he likes about you is your a s s. like I said, if he had true feelings for you, he’d be with you. tell him to leave his boyfriend abroad, or it’s over.

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