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I met this guy. He is new…and amazing! He is twenty and im 17 so its a 3 year diff. not bad…he lives like 5 mins away from me…which is good…we can walk to each others places. THere is one problem! He has a girlfriend. Why do I always have toruble finding someone…there always takin!! Anyway…He has been dating her for about 2 months. I am starting to fall for him soo much! He told me he likes me a lot! But he has a girlfriend…and he made a commitment. THe thing is when we hang out we FLIRT all the time…and the past couple times we have kissed a lot! I don’t know if its bad…but I told him he needs to stop because its not fair to his girlfriend at all. He told me he is sorry for putting me in this situation. Im liking him so much and I don’t know what im going to do becuase im falling for him. We decided to wait and see what happens down the road and just be friends…aka “flirty friends” I need help?? Im stuck! I don’t know what im going to do…cause I cant forget about him.

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Answer #1

What arent you getting? Everyone has told you to BACK OFF! (the last time you asked this same question) He is in a relationship, you move on and focus your interest elsewhere, with someone who is single. Treat others the way you would want to be treated and I’m sure you wouldn’t like someone trying to break up or come between you and your boyfriend. He is with her because he wants to be and until anything different it is best you move on and let them be. You cant fall for every guy who gives you alittle attention, or fall for every word. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS! Sorry, but this guy is NOT amazing. Hes a player, and a cheat!

  • I told him he needs to stop because its not fair to his girlfriend at all* >Please show some self-respect and get back in control, even if you “really like him. Absolutely ignore him. You need to just “walk on by.” Do not flirt, and do not involve yourself with this immature guy. You need to show some pride and self-control. Let the two of them live in their own private Hell. The lesson he needs to learn is that he can’t cheat on his girlfriend with no consequences.
Answer #2

you already know the answer to this right? if he’s into YOU then he’ll let you know it. if not then you should move on. you will find someone/. soon.

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