He doesn't make a sound during sex

I don’t want to cheat on him. I just want him. And the more he acts like he could “take me or leave me”, the more I want to be with him. He only acts like that in terms of sex though…like he could take it or leave it. In every other aspect he’s fine. We see eachother all the time, he’s very cuddly and affectionate and always tells me he loves me. The whole sex thing is the only thing “wrong” with our relationship. I don’t want to change him..I just want to know the truth about what he likes and what he doesn’t like. Like he says he loves having sex with me but yet he never wants to do it..or never bring it up himself I should say. He says he doesn’t think going down on me is gross but yet I can’t get a real reason why he won’t do it. Being “inexperienced” doesn’t sound like the truth to me. It sounds like an excuse. It’s almost like he says certain things just because if he tells me the truth he’s afraid of making me mad. But then his actions (or lack thereof) end up contradicting his words. And how are you only gonna be turned on by someones feet and nothing else? It’s amost impossible to get him hard unless I stick my foot in his face lol. Seriously. Or if I go down on him…which I do all the time. But I even feel awkward when I do that because I’m thinking What if he doesn’t want me to do it and just isn’t telling me because he’s so f*cking PASSIVE and that’s how he is??? Everything about our sex life (besides the actual sex) is awkward. And it’s not a huge deal to me if he doesn’t make noises during sex..but it would let me know that he’s really enjoying it. Just because he cums doesn’t mean it was anything “special” to him. Sex is sex, guys cum from it. I know I’m overanalyzing everything…but it’s hard not to when you’re with someone who pretty much makes you GUESS how they;re feeling or what they’re thinking about a certain thing. He’s sooo passive it’s not even funny lol. I used to like that about him…his quiet nature and how he’s so patient with everything and everyone..but now it’s starting to annoy me a little. I’m not gonna break up with him over sex, but like I said before, I’ve tried explaining to him that it’s not just about the sex itself, but its about the way I feel when we’re doing it…the way I feel closer to him and the intimate connection I feel only with him that I never felt with anyone else. If it ws just about sex (and I told him this) and sex alone I would go screw someone else just to get laid. But I haven’t, and I don’t want to. I only want him. I tell him all this and he says he knows and he understands but it never changes anything…