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Can anyone help me talk to guys?

umm hello im a girl that is very shy and i have trouble talking to guys .__. im going to be a freshman starting in late august, but i still haven`t had a boyfriend yet.i know.. sad.. so.. basically.. i need some advice on how to talk to a guy..er.. how to get one to notice me ? erm im really nervous.. because guys never really seem to find me pretty or fun to be around.. & how the heck do you flirt ?cause i went to a catholic private school in middle school.. and there were only 27 eigth graders so.. that about sums it up :S

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Answer #1

don’t be in too big a hurry to find a boyfriend.. you don’t need to depend on one, and boyfriends are bad anyway.. they just want to get in your pants, and will tell you anything to get you to open your legs to them.

like britt_luvz_u said, most of the guys are not very mature.

the best way to get to know someone is to be a friend. think of three questions to ask someone. these could be school related ‘who is your favorite teacher?’ or ‘which class do you like best?’, or more personal, such as ‘what did you do over the summer?’, or you could ask if they like the lunch menu, or if they’ve seen a good movie.

the key is to ask people questions about themselves that don’t have a simple yes or no answer. this way, they will talk about who they are, what they like, etc.

then people will consider you a brilliant conversationalist, or a good friend.. all because you asked them three questions about themselves (that you thought up in advance!).

Answer #2

hey im in the 8th grade in a private skool w/ 8 guys in my grade that r WAY to immature so i flirt w/ the guys a grade up. u just laugh a lot and pretend to listen to evrything they say. and just kinda pretend ur not shy and just stand in the middle of all the boys and talk!! hope i helped!!

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