if your are a guy, would you try to get the attension of a woman to get to someone else whom you love?

I’m not a guy, but I have dated females before and I can tell you that I wouldn’t do that. For one, I think that you shouldn’t try to get the attention from a person that you truly don’t want it from. Secondly, you especially don’t do that if you have someone that you love already. And lastly, doing that hurts people. Using jealousy is an awful way to win someone’s heart or attention.

If you’re not sure why he’d being nasty to you, you could always sit him down and ask him what’s up.

Yes agreed* ^ never do that …because she will aventually seeee youu that u love her alot and relize who she really wants but when you get the attention from anther girl shes goin to think twice about u…shes gona think you were nothing but a lie and a fake…I am not a guy but a guy has done this to me and it hurts alot. so i wouldnt advise you to do it.

Yeah if the “other womans attention” your trying to get is in the same social stream.

You should completely stay focused on the girl you have your heart set on getting. You should never use another girl to get her aattention because you will regret it when it starts to cause major complications, it will have a bad ending and you may end up being on your own and having none of the girls.

I believe everyone missed the question…. You think he is only showing you attention to make his wife jealous, and you’re confused cause you think you might like this dude. Am I right? If this is the case, I would assume he loves his wife and has no intention on leaving her. Most guys simply enjoy women showing them any attention, and he likes to make comments just to see how you are going to react. I have been married for 8 years and before my wife I could enter a room and know for a fact that I could have any girl in there. Now I obviously am not going to act that way, but I do like when other women show some interest. It goes much deeper than that but you get the idea. So to answer your question, yes guys would get the attention of someone to make another woman jealous, or to eventually get the attention of someone els. But I don’t think that is whats happening here.

my boyfriend did this, he fancied my best mate just to get to me. I guess it worked and my best friend didn’t get hurt simply because well..putting it nicely she goes out with anything that moves.