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I have been talking to this guy a few weeks. He has told me he likes me and doesn't want to lose me but only wants to be friends, even though he doesn't treat me like a friend. I don't trust men who do this. Its like saying "I like you for now but if I get someone better you wont be my problem because we are only "friends"". He calls me and texts me all hours of the day and night. He says he calls "just to hear my voice". he calls me baby all the time. he introduces me to his friends like I'm a trophy and expects me to sit close to him with him arm around me and time we are with his friends. I don't like friends with benefits!!!! I am very emotional and I get very attached and when I told him that he says that he is feeling attracted to me too. I don't understand how you can treat someone like a girlfriend but only call her a friend. should I give up because honestly I live in a small country town I hate and there are no guys my type here of should I stick around even though this is driving me emotionally crazy and he will most likely hurt me 2 to 3 times a day because of this????
you should tell him to pick either you get the lable as his gf... cause thats basically what you are you to act like a couple but he just dosent wanna commite he wants freedom and you.... orrrrrrrr you just stop talking to him completely cause hes just leading you on.... he seems like a playerrrr and just cause you cant find anyone else now dosent mean you cant latterrrr you shouldent just settle for someone just cause you dont think you can find another cause thats not gonna make you happy
Tell him straight up "hey I like you and I think you like me so whatever this is has to stop either we are just friends or we are more then friends there's no in betweens." If he hesitates then let him know "I feel like you flirt with me to keep me here as a fallout plan if you don't meet anyone better kind of thing and that's not okay, so I need an answer now" fun message me the results girl!
The reason why he treats you as a friend with benefits is because he can! You let him! If you're tired of being a friend with benefits, stop giving him the benefits. It's as simple as that :p
