How do i tell my girlfriend my life secrets?

well i had a rough life growing up, i barly ever told anyone about it my family barly know about. But now i met this nice girl we get along well and everything, but the problem is that she want to spend a lot of time with me and well. I don’t know how to tell her some secrets that i feel she need to know about me if she want to connect to me, it so hard now this may not seen like a big deal to some of ya ( like oh well just tell her) but it huge for me. I can’t find the words without me feeling bad or me changing how i act around her. anyone wanna give me some advice on how to tell your sweet loving girlfriend, that you know you got a speech Impediment and that your a nerd with no life? (< the nerd part not a huge deal, that pretty minor)

but i need seriously help

Answer #1

Just sit down with her and talk to her shell understand and is better if you tell her sonner than later

Answer #2

if she´s a nice girl, its simple… get a serious face, and explain everthing, girls are really sensitive to things that matter :3 most of them ¬¬)

Answer #3

If you’ve already spoken then she would know you have a speech impediment. So I’m assuming you’ve only met her online and not in person or even spoke over the phone. If you have met in person and she didn’t question your speech then chances are she is comfortable with it and you can talk about it later when you know each other better. The fact that you are uncomfortable bringing it up means you are not totally comfortable with her and therefore not ready to make this a committed relationship. Sit back for a while and give it time…Talking about uncomfortable thing will be for when you both have known each other longer and are more sure of the relationship. Good Luck, Sue

Answer #4

i think either you dont have to tell her secrets - cuz they are your secrets, that’s why they are called secrets. stop thinking like your are hiding something from her. yeah i got you she is a nice girls. but even in this case you DONT HAVE TO tell her everything about her. One more thing. if you kinda scared to tell her you are a virgin (if you are) - you may not tell her about it too. just calm down, be natural like you know things and everythnig will be ok

Answer #5

*about you, not ‘her’

Answer #6

men dont do it coz tshemight not understand and you get so disappointed just like me

Answer #7

Well, be careful what you tell…..girls may be sensitive while they are your girlfriend, but will she still be your girlfriend next year at this time. There are things you probably would prefer not to be spread all over the school….which could very well happen if the relationship doesn’t work out.

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Answer #8

as every body said,girls are sensitive.i will make my answer simple… in relationships ya have to share things.secrets are also thing of these things which ya have to share.but be careful some secrets ya cant tell her.ya know what i mean…

Answer #9

In order to really have a real and close relationships there can be no secrets. It will create distance. You want to share your life. If she is important to you then you gotta tell her. But, if she can’t handle it then it wasn’t going to work out anyway. At least you’ll feel better having communicated fully.

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