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Getting my ex back?

So I’ve been with this guy on and off for 2 and a half years, and I’m currently almost 9 months pregnant with his daughter. We haven’t been together since right befor I found out I was pregnant but we’ve stayed talking for the most part, well he has a baby from this other girl, a girl he was never with mind you, according to him she was just a piece of a**, and he told everyone that. Well when she had her baby he decided he wanted to try a relationship with her and now he’s with her. I love him more than anything but he keeps tellin me that what he had was good but lets leave it at that that he doesn’t want to be with me. I don’t understand, I never did anything to him to make him feel that way, I’ve always tried my hardest to make him happy. I’ve never felt about anyone the way I feel about him, He’s my everything and has been for 2 and a half years and now he’s the father of my child, that means a lot to me and I just don’t want to give up on things, I want to be with him more than ever. I just don’t know what to do anymore, I’ve said everything that I could think of him to say but it’s like nothing works. PLEASE HELP ME!!!

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Answer #1

u dont really have much control over his stupid decisions, but ill tell you what HE should do. he should dump this other girl that already had the baby and stay with you at least until the baby is born and c how things go from there. for all he knows…he could want to be with you forever after getting back with u.

Answer #2

I agree with pinkpearl…

I would think about the baby instead of yourself. When it comes down to it, if he does not fill that responsibility of the full-time dad then you are going to have to fill that role and file for child support. Love or not you have to take care of your child. Just focus your attention off your love life for awhile, to your child, until another man comes your way.

Answer #3

This is a situation you don’t have much control over, sadly. He’s not playing games… he has been honest with you and he’s told you right to your face that he doesn’t want to be with you, and you need to accept that. He sure seems to like spreading his seed around… on that basis alone I’d say you’re better off without him. But do make sure he pays you child support. Emotionally, you have to move on, as hard as it sounds.

Answer #4

it’s hard, I know. but you can’t really do much about it but be a good person to him and hope it all works out.

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