How to let a friend know she can't always get what she wants?

How do you let a friend know that she cant alwys get what she wants. She thinks that if she screws up or stands up a freinds that it will be ok the next day, and im trying to show her that its not by giving her a taste of her own medicine, but she doesnt see what im trying to do! And I cant tell her because she wont listen to me! I love her as a person but she just takes it to an extreme level. What should I do?

Answer #1

Some people will never learn. All you can do is explain to her in a very precise manner that what she’s doing is wrong. If she doesn’t listen, MAKE her listen. Stand up for yourself and get what YOU want.

Answer #2

oh jeez, I used to have a freind just like that. I was in 5th grade then, so I had absolutly no clue how to deal with her. anyways, right before I was about to rip her head off because she was SO obnoxious, my mom deceided we were going to move. I hope you figure out a healthy way to tell her. :D

Answer #3

First tell her even she doesn’t want to listen if she doesn’t care then don’t give her attention just ignore her then she will notice that.

Answer #4

Hmm I have a friend like this. I’ve started learning how to say no… Also I’ve learnt to stop relying on them… I know its annoying, but some people are self centered and selfish, and if you want to keep them around then you learn to stop expecting stuff from them…

Answer #5

ingore her and she will notice the silent treatment.

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