What can I say to my friend to reassure her that everything will be ok?

Cause she’s been having a period that has lasted an entire year. So she’s got to have an operation, which means she wont be able to have babies when she’s older. She’s upset about it. What should I do?

Answer #1

Nothing, there is nothing you can say and because you aren’t in the situation you probably won’t really understand. What I do suggest you do is to be there for her and listen to her, don’t tell her it will be ok as that will probably just make her feel worse.

Answer #2

Okie dokie, I was going to say like, its okay as in don’t worry about the operation. Cause she’s worried about the operation

Answer #3

Research the operation with her and make sure that she speaks to the doctor performing it about her concerns, what you could do is offer to go with her when consulting the doctor.

Answer #4

hey, i know you cant do anything… but you may tell her there are other ways of having kids. adoptions or something… tell her there will be someone who will love her despite the circumstance and try to give her hope… the world grows scientifically everyday, in the near future there might be some remedy. i hope this helps. coz if i were in her shoes,i guess those will be my fears.

Answer #5

Well, you CAN do something about it. There’s never anything you can’t do in any situation. Try talking to her about it and making her comfortable. This is obviously a big issue in her life, and it seems like she really wants to have children when she’s older. Encourage her to stay strong and do what the doctor’s suggest is best. Things can only get better from this point. Don’t mention about her not being able to have kids; that will only make things worse and make her more stressed about the operation. Maybe after she’s recovered, you can talk to her about alternate options in having children. Good luck!

Answer #6

Jusf reassure her that its gunna be alright…everything happens for areason. be there for her through it all. Theres lot of little babies that need adopted and need to be loved…

Answer #7

There is really nothing you can say to her, Thats a horrible situation she’s in, she doesn’t get to have one of life’s most precious things or gets to experience it ( having a baby ) and you have no idea what she is going through cause your not in her situation. Just be there for her. & there is still adoption and other things she can do to have a child to raise. There are so many kids out there that needs parents so she will still get the experience of being able to raise kids just not hers and thats just upsetting, to not be able to see the resemblance of the parents in your kids and the things they do they get from you. Just let her know that if she needs anything you will always be there to help her in anyway you can.

Answer #8

I just said to her “ I’m always going to be here for you no matter what. When I see you tomorrow I am going to give you a huge hug. I will help you with anything you need help with xxx”

Answer #9

Our most difficult task as a friend is to offer understanding when we don’t understand.
~Robert Brault

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