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Is my friend into me or am I misreading the signs?

This is awkward. My friend Hunter has been acting weird lately with me, about a week or so ago he seemed really emotional and said he was having a panic attack and I asked why and he said it’s nothing I can help with. I told him I can at least try and asked what the problem is. He said he has feelings for one of his friends that he talks to a lot and doesn’t know if she likes him and he doesn’t want to say anything because things will be awkward if she doesn’t like him. For one thing, him and I talk A LOT. I’m not really aware of many other girls he knows. I told him to take it slow with whoever the girl is and if he thinks it’s right to say something. He was still weird and upset seeming, so I asked does he see a future with this girl. He paused for a long time and then said, ‘’Actually now that I think of it… no’’ and I said it would probably be best not to tell her that he has a crush then if he doesn’t think he would want an actual relationship on the off chance this girl might like him too or not. He thought this was a good idea. I asked who the girl was and he said her name is Britney and I guess is a friend of a friend or something idek. Well, since then he’s seemed a bit clingyish to me and affectionate I started thinking if I’m the girl he’s into or not. Well tonight I was IMing him and said I had to go and I’d talk to him tomorrow and he said wait and I asked what. He took a minute to even say anything and just went, ‘’Nothing, just go’’ and I kept trying to get him to tell me and all he kept putting was ‘’ :/ ‘’ then he said he had to go and I was like, ‘’Hunter, what were you going to say?’’ and he just went, ‘’Not now. I can’t tell you’’

O_o …Not sure what to think here. Advice?

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Answer #1

To me, it couldn’t be more screamingly obvious that he likes you.

Answer #2

He definitely likes you. So obvious. Aww…if he denies it remember the first step to admitting something is being indenial (or so I think xD)

Answer #3

I agree with the other 2 answers.

Answer #4

If he actually likes me, the issue is about this is when I asked ‘’do you see a future with the girl you like’’ and he said no, how am I suppose to take that? I sorta like him too..

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Answer #6

well he might like you!!! if you think he does ask a friend to ask him and they will tell you!! XP xxx

Answer #7

I am not doing very well with men right now and perhaps never have. I was just dating a man for several years and, behind my back he was dating my best friend for the past 2 or 3 years. The man I dated before that was dating another girl and me at the same time. He did that so he could decide which one of us he wanted to marry and he decided upon her. So I don’t know how good my advice is. I will tell you this. I believe that there are three parts to love: respect, trust and honor. I don’t believe that you can truly love someone without those three being present. This young man needs to trust you and have faith in you. If he can’t ever speak to you in an honest manner, if he can’t ever express his real feelings towards you, how can you ever have an intimate relationship with him? I just went through this very same thing with a potential suitor. I knew there was a reason he wouldn’t cut the cord with his current girlfriend and practically had to drag it out of him. Once I did, things were better between us but only for a day or two. Then he cut off all communication with me. He probably went back to her for reasons I won’t offer here. Drag this information out of him if you have to. If he can’t be honest with you, then whatever friendship you have with him isn’t a real friendship anyway. Men tend to be secretive. That I know for sure. If he isn’t willing to tell you, then stop talking to him. Leave him alone until he does. And if this is the kind of man he really is, secretive and closeted, then you haven’t lost anything. If you have to, come right out and ask him if it’s you. Look him right in the eyes and wait until he answers. If he doesn’t come clean, then look elsewhere. If you lose his friendship, it wasn’t really a friendship because it wasn’t based on honesty. That’s my take and I hope that, on some level, I helped.

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