How do I get my friend and this guy together?

So, my friend has been obsessing over this guy lately and I decided to talk to him and see what he thinks. Lucky for them, he likes her too. Unfortunately, they both are SOOOO shy. It took my two weeks just to get them to talk to each other in school. I’m arranging with him to ask her out now, but I’m not sure if I should just straight up tell him/ her or beat around the bush… Please help!

Answer #1

Just tell the boy that she’s interested so he gets a confidence boost and tell him he should ask her out. Don’t do too much planning because you want him to come up with the date and everything so it’s special for your friend.

Answer #2

Tell her that he likes her, and tell him that she likes him. If they want to ask each other out, then leave it up to them. Suggest that they may ask each other out, don’t “tell” them that they should, let them draw their own conclusions. Though honestly I believe once you them that both share a common interest in each other one’s bound to break the ice and ask , if they want to go so fat yet. If they ask you for any advice or what your opinion is, be blunt.

Answer #3

I’m sorry, but if they’re too timid to brake the ice on their own then that’s their problem that they should figure out and deal with. Feel free to tell them they’ve it in for each other, but other than that, I’d let it go. Life’s not always going to have someone there to tell you what you should do with your life, who has it in for you, etc. They’ll have to learn that life’s not all about playing safe. In order to live,m one must take risks.

Answer #4

They don’t sound like the type of people that should be procreating. He should man up and ask her out and if he doesn;t she should find herself a man who comes complete with a backbone if they still exist. One man in ten thousand I have not found.

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