friend getting married to an really older guy

so my friend is engaged and im happy for her. however, the man she is marryin is old enough to be her dad. he has a son that is her age which she dated and also got in bed with. she asked me to be in the wedding which I agreed to. but I cant help to think of how eerry (yeha I know I dont know how to spell the word) that is. I want her to be happy, she really deserves it. I dont want to hurt her or go behind her back. I love her dearly, but I think its odd or whatever to be engaged to your ex boyfriends father. yes I know some will say well love has no boundaries, as long as they love each other what does it matter. I see that point, and I can agree to that but I cant help but to think how odd or weird or whatever. what do you think?

Answer #1

yea its weird but its her descision. your gonna hate me for this but love has no boundaries lmao

Answer #2

haha not funny. im looking for some real answers here not for one to say that b/c of what I said in my question. I dont want to sound mean or anything. but really. besides the love without boundaries isn even a true thing. b/c if it was, regardless what our partner does, we wouldn ever leave them.

Answer #3

I never did say I wasn happy for her. I said that in my question, I said im happy for her, I was just baiscally seeing if anybody else agreed that it was an odd situation. I never thought that it was affecting my life. I never did say that I was against the marriage, I even told that im going to be in (im the maid of honor to be exact) im NOT judging her or anyone else. I was just seeing if anyone else that it was eerry thats all. I wasn meaning that she was a bad person or anything. so need to get upset thinking im judging her or not supporting her, b/c I never said I wasn.

Answer #4

No offense but what she is doing is making her happy. It is not affecting your life in any way. It may creep you out but its best to be there for your friend. If you are against this marriage for reasons other than age, such as him treating her bad, then boycott the wedding and do not remain friends with her. Her all make life choices not everyone agrees with but in life the only person you should make happy is youself. It is a strange situation I can give you that. Somewhat odd to date a son and then his father but hey who are we to judge.

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