First time sex for both of us

hey, me and my girlfriend have been going out for exactly a month tomorrow, and tonight she said she wants to have sex. we’re both virgins. and I only agreed after making her assure me several times that this is what she realy wanted, and she wouldnt regret it. im not worried about my self, but im worried of what I might do to her. I herd it hurt for a girl, the first time. and she bleeds. I dont want to cause her any pain, and I most certinly dont want to spill her blood. is there any way at all of not hurting her because if there isnt I dont know if ill bbe able to go through with it, I love her too much, and I will not knowingly cause her pain for any reason.

just a little side note (if any religious nut cases come in here telling me about how my girlfriend and I will go to hell if we do it, you should know im an atheist and your threts of hell dont frighten me in the least. so please be kind and dont hi-jack my post)

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Answer #1

im afraid it does hurt but not as much as you may think…just be gentle and go slow, try not to force it or it will hurt really bad…when you are ummm entering her? tell her to push towards you a little and it womt hurt as much and the only way she will bleed is if you force it or go to hard or to fast so just keep it slow and gentle but I must tell you she will have a sort of stinging feeling afterwards but nothing to be worried or scared about..its normal, even if she bleeds a little..thats also normal it will be just a littlt like a light pink but again nothing to worr about …hope this helps have fun and BE SAFE

Answer #2

aaah, you sound really nice. be careful and slow and make sure to ask her how shes doing.

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