Falling hard

I am a little confused by your question. You said “he is not close 2 my family what so ever” and “he never just hangs out with me and my friends”. Then you go on to say “he has already meet my family and he always hangs out wit me and my friends”.

If your issue is that you want him to spend more time with you and your family, try inviting him over for dinner once a week or so. Or a movie night. Something casual. If he says no, ask him why he doesn’t seem to want to hang out with your family. Don’t make it sound like you are accusing him of anything– just ask like you are concerned (because it sounds like you are).

Same thing for your friends. Invite him along more. And if you want to spend more time with his family, tell him. Tell him you want to get to know them.

If you haven’t talked to him about any of this, that is a major problem and you guys need to see about ways to communicate better together.