Ever had a broken heart? if so please read this and help me...

my ex and I broke up in October after a 4 year relationship. We havent spoken since no calls no text. I have done well for myself I have made new friends, I have dated, I joined a gym and got in great shape, I have gone out and had fun. but I still think about him at least once a day. Every month seems to get a little easier for me, I dont cry as much. but I still cant stop thinking about this man that broke my heart two days before my 20th birthday for no reason… I continue to tell myself I would never go back to him no matter what and I wont. I just think about him all the time, I dont always cry when I think about him only once in a while do I cry. I have put all the things that remind me of him away. I guess my question is will I eventually stop thinking about him? will time eventually heal my broken heart? has anyone gone through something like this that can share some insight and maybe help me out a little?

Answer #1

I have pretty much gotten to the point where I dont care why he broke up with me. he got new friends he ditched some of his old friends he has changed. he is not the man I knew before. he will regret what he did in time I know he will. you cant just end a relationship like that and never speak to that person again… it WILL come back to haunt him im just trying to accept it fully and move on I know it wasnt me I know for a fact I did nothing wrong it was him. and im content with that. if he ever wants to call me he can now I dont know if ill answer his phone call but we will see. I think once february is over I will be better. (feb is our anniversary) once that terrible month is over with I think I will be better I just take one day at a time. thank you for everyones help with this if anyone has anything else to share it would be nice to read more stories and suggestions. thank you ;)

Answer #2

listen it might not be what to hear but hear e out do you think you love him,if so what are you doing just sitting around for go see him call him tet him find out why he brok up with you mabie it was a big misunder standing I know I younger than you but I’ve gone through it too I’ve loved someone so much and they just left me no good resen to break up I couldent get over it but somehow I knew there was a resion for it so I called her she told me that she was bi and it wasent the awsner I was looking for but even if it is a bad awnser it wil make you under stand more and be able to get over him faster its fine if you dont wan to listen to me because im still a teen but I’ve gone through it all before so just try it

Answer #3

okayyy I know exactly what your going through I was with this guy for a while and I loved him I felt soo good when I had him he text me one day after a few days of kind of avoiding me and said that we needed to take a break my heart just stopped and I just sayd okay I didnt know what else to say . but then the next day he text me all day and then said I wanna b with you again I said are u sure and he said ill probally ask you out again just wait the weekend so we can have a few days apart so I waited and nothing ever happened I cryed every night I thought I would never stop crying and you will prob never stop loving him cause I know I havent we talk sometimes bt not much I miss him and I still remember thing we did and cry and its been over a year I know I will never be over him so I have accepted that he f=doesnt like me and im okayy now what I did to help I wrote down all the momories I had of him it took like faive pages I wrote as if it was a letter to him saying everything we did and at the end I said somthing like I lvoe you and I know I cnat stop that feeling but ill be okayy and it helped to egt it all out and know that I cnat have him as much as I want him back I cant and I was sooo muchbetter after that I hope I helped you tell me show it goes

Answer #4

well I wasnt in as long as a relationship as you were but me and my boyfriend were together for a year unil he broke up with me in august. I really loved him more than anything but I realized that he obviously is not for me if he dumped me without reason. I went many nights sleepless and cried all the time but now that a few months have passed I am able to sleep pretty well and I dont cry about him anymore. and actually yeah I still think about him at least once everyday but everytime I do think about him it just reminds me of how I never want to get back together with him. time will heal everything and you sound like youre doing really well and headed in the right direction.

Answer #5

you probably will 4get bout him… but I don’t know because I’ve gotten my heart broken a thousand times and still cnt live it dwn… but theres this ONE guy (who will remain nameLESS) I was nver w/him..but I was sooo in love w/him.. he was funny, an *ss mst of the time but was nice 2oo mii when we were alone, he was and still is cute :) bt one day this girl (who will also remain nameless) that ruined are freindShip.. she strted spreading lies about mii & him.. & eventuallly he ebded up hating mii & wishing I wasnt on this earth.. well I don’t know…

Answer #6

Im in a 4year relationship too and we argue and if we would break up ( I hope to god that never happens) I dont know what I would do because we shared so so much. I honestly think you should talk to him, because if you dont then the question: “why did he break up with me?” will haunt you. it will be so hard to talk to him again…I believe but it will help you so much. try to talk to him there is nothing you can lose…right?

More Like This
Advisor

Love & Relationships

Dating, Marriage, Breakups

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

Trusted Readings from Love Ps...

Psychic Readings, Love Advice, Relationship Guidance

Advisor

Psychic Source

Love readings, Psychic readings, Relationship advice

Advisor

Psychic Source

Psychic Readings, Love Advice, Relationship Guidance

Advisor

Amazing Love Quotes

Dating, Relationships, Advice