Embarasing sex times.

My boyfriend and I had sex last night, and suddenly, he put his finger up my bum hole. I didnt like it, and he thinks I did like it. How do I break it to him that I dont want him to do it again without embarasing myself? It was especially embarrasing because I hoped he didn’t get a brown finger:(

Answer #1

To tell him that you don’t want him to do it again, kind of make a joke out of it…like I wasn’t ready to make out and he kept trying to and I told him the next time he stuck his tounge in my mouth, I was gonna bite it…he tried again and I bit it, not hard but playfully. So just think of something silly like that to say, and that way its not too awkward, but make sure he knows you’re serious too. And don’t do anything you don’t like or don’t want to do.

Answer #2

Then why are you with him? You shouldn’t be with someone your too intimidated to talk to. End of. Finish him.

Answer #3

Ummm Just talk to him and tell him tell him you didnt like it its the best you can do :)

Answer #4

Sorry I have to admit that I found that pretty funny! I agree with blahblah, relationships, at least good ones, are based on communication. Quite simply tell him you didn’t really like it, don’t have to be forceful about it. Yes talking about is might be a little embarrassing, but well, it’s the only real option!

Hmm, I just read back the dominating thing. Furthermore you feel he will betray you to his friends. Serious question, why are you with him? If it’s for fun, or you feel you can dominate him, then you have to stand up for yourself. But if you want a serious relationship, he doesn’t sound very nice from what you have described, you should want better for yourself.

Answer #5

well I would, but he’s really dominating. he will probably tell all his friends that a had a chocolate arse too :(

Answer #6

he’s hit me beofre

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