Doesn't Know What To Think...

I have been going with this guy for about 7 months now. And it became very serious in the beginning. I felt like he was my best friend, and I moved in with him in November and it just wasn’t what I expected so I move back home…and now I feel that im ready to go back but the thing is that he lives in Missouri and I live in Kentucky so thats a pretty good trip. And I have no car so he has been planning on coming to get me for the past 3 weeks but every week about 2 days before the day that he’s supposed to come get me he starts having second thoughts… I feel like im making a huge sacrafise in willing to move myself and my two kids 500 miles away from the only family that we have ever known and I almost feel like he’s making promises that he isn’t going to be able to keep. I guess im just confused. I know that he loves me and I love him but I can’t take to many more lets downs from him. How do I tell him that if he’s not ready then maybe he shouldn’t talk to me like he is then 2 days before the day tell me that hes nervous and scared.

Answer #1

my only question to you is you have only been with him for 7 months right? then how do you feel you know and trust him enough to move not only you, but children in with this man? when kids are involved, you need to be careful not to bring them in and out of unstable situations. if he is having second thoughts, then it is obviously not a good thing to pack up your two kids and put yourselves in that situation. good luck.

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