Do you still think he would date me

This guy just came back into my life we used to go to little school together but then once we got to high school we went to different ones and never saw each other, now we hang out together with all out other friends after school and he likes me again…I like him too but, he’ll want to finger me like he has his other girlfriends and I wouldn’t let him I think its horrid that people do finger people and suck each other off urgh turns my stomach…so what do you think I should do? do you think he would still like me?

Answer #1

Since you’ve been friends since you were little and you’re comfortable around him, you should tell him that you’re not comfortable getting fingered by him or anyone. And if he pressures you or says if you don’t have sex with me I’ll dump you, then he’s not worth it at all. I hope my advice helps!

                             ~geordi101
Answer #2

If you are pretty sure that he is going to pressure you or expect sex in any relationship, than I think you need to move on. I’m sure there are better guys for you out there than this one. If you pick him, you are settling.

Answer #3

if he truly dose like you, I don’t think you need to worry, just don’t bring up the topic, but once it dose arise, just tell him truthfuly that you don’t want to be sexual with him, and give him your view on it, and if he loves/likes you then he should be able to accept that and not force you into doing anything you don’t want to do! but at the same time, once you’re in a relationship with someone you truly love and adore, being sexual just feels right and normal! - but that’s just my oppinion! don’t let anyone run your life and force you into something you don’t feel comfortable doing!

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