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Do you ever wonder why some people hate you as soon as they lay eyes on you? I have this happen to me from time to time. Every time I experience this from someone, I immediately assume that there must be something about the way I look that they dislike, because they will look at me with this look of hate and disgust on their face as if they want to kill me. This makes me feel insecure. These people don't know me from a hole in the wall so for them not like me, makes absolutely no sense to me. Have you ever experienced this and if so, how did it make you feel?
Yes I have and unfortunately there's nothing you can do about it except show good character and move on, and wait for them to realize that you're ok.......or not too....it isn't your problem.
THEY are the ones who are insecure............they have a problem with themselves, not you even though they react that way.
Maybe it's because your more attractive and they feel threatened. Or maybe you are good with conversation and they are not.
Men have this same problem. Sometimes I stop in a bar just because I want to have a beer and relax..............I don't care about their wives or girlfriends.............but I get dirty looks and hate stares.
Just be nice to people, always maintain good character and judgement and eventually some of them see that you're ok. Don't worry about them.
I had that happen with this girl a few weeks ago, she passed me in the bathroom, stopped, looked me up and down, made this face then left.
At first I was upset, but ya know, I don't have time for people like that in my life, so I moved on and continued being nice to her.
Amazing what insecurity will make people do, huh? Don't let it bring you down. Hold your head up high and KNOW that YOU are cool. That YOU own something that they don't. So smile and let your kindness kick them in the butt.
YOU GO GIRL!
You're quite welcome.
thanks onemandog
