How do I choose between two guys that I love?

i was good friends with this guy for 2 1/2 years and then we were together for 2. i’ve been through a lot w/him and i don’t think i’ll ever stop loving him. we finally broke up b/c i think we both needed a break and constantly fighting. we still talked and were still friends though. i knew i wanted him back but he told me to move on and he only saw me as a friend. after awhile i started talking to a new guy. he’s great and he’s my boyfriend. we’ve been together for about a month. recently i went to my old b/fs house to help him w/something and then we went to the movies w/his sister and her friend(the movie was unplanned). when we were driving home he told me how he realized he wasn’t over me and he really missed me and i missed him too. he said he had tried so hard not to kiss me all day but he gave in and kissed me. i knew i shouldn’t but i kissed him back. it felt so right to be back in his arms. he said he wants me to be w/who makes me most happy but i’m so crazy about both of them. they are both so good to me and i don’t think i even deserve either!! please help me b/c i have NOBODY i can talk to about this and i really need help! should i stay w/the new guy and give him a chance or get back w/the old guy b/c we get along like we used to.

Answer #1

Its hard to put out those embers. That's why divorced couples end up sleeping together afterwards. Its the comfort factor that makes people want to stay together.<p>

Look at the dark side of your past relationship. Can you deal with the problems that you had before? Can you live with that side of him? When the sex wears off, can you stand him?<p>

Sometimes moving on is good. There was a reason why you broke up in the first place. Try to remember that reason and see if it was valid.

Answer #2

agree with admin

Answer #3

If you really loved the first dude, then you wouldn’t have fallen for the second dude. Go with who your heart tells you to.

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