Close call!

Okay, so my girlfriend and I were in my room with the door shut, under the blankets of my room. We were just about to start having sex when my mother walked in on us, lucky we were under the blankets so she could not see my girlfriend or I naked. My mom says shes mad at us because I was on top of her intensely making out. This was yesterday. So now today my girlfriend asked me to go to her house after school tomorrow, when I asked my mom she said no..how do I change her mind?? Please help! Btw I am 14 and my girlfriend is also and we have been going out for 1year (yesterday was 1year)!! So if your gonna say were to young… I dont need to hear that, (we use protected sex) thanks :d

Answer #1

He can ask as politely as he wants not to mention age but it is a big deal At the end of the day the laws are in place because people still going through puberty cant handle a relationship properly and the emotions it brings and shouldnt be having sex at an age when they are still developing For a start he won’t have even had sex education fully yet

Plus if she gets pregnant she is at a higher risk of complications because of her age

Answer #2

ok frankly I think everyone needs to keep their personal oppinions to themselves he asked politely not to mention their age tho I would not say it is the best age I give them props for using protection not many fourteen year old people do and if you are going to go over tell her you are going to go for a walk or something like that then she cant call that friend and ask if you ever showed up and if she asks what took so long then tell her you bumped into someone you know and talked to them longer than you thaught honestly to all those who above me said you are to young and you will be labeled a school loser maybe they are just angry at the fact they did not have sex till they were older I know many young couples having sex at 12 and 13 so you are doing better than they are however do it for the right reasons if you really do love her thats ok but if you are doing it to be cool its really not going to make you any more popular

do it for the right reason

any more help im always here and im not going to say your to young

be safe

Answer #3

Uhh, “death4228”. I don’t know if you feel cool by saying that, but if you’re only 14 and having sex all the time that’s actually really disgusting. And I wouldn’t go around broadcasting it because your high school career will be hell if you do, and not to mention by the time you’re 30 you’ll probably have every STD in the books and when you get older nobody is going to want to marry somebody that has had sex 500 times before.

It’s not cute, or cool.

It’s just gross.

Answer #4

everyone who says your too young needs to go get anal raped by a cactus anyway im 14 and I have sex all the time …anyway just wait and buy her cofidence back lol sorry I suck at spelling XD

Answer #5

doing it on your one year ann. would of been cute, but honestly, I think you guys are a bit young. Maybe you should have you girlfriend over when your mom isnt home. Or you should tell your mom that you’re going over a friend’s house, when really, you’re going to your girlfriends house.

It may seem a bit fishy so you should go to your girfriends house in a couple days instead.

Hope I helped (:

Answer #6

well I dont think that you should do that. you could get her pregonet and that would be a pretty hard time so I do not suggest doing that at all.

hope this helped

Answer #7

TELL HER THAT SHE KAN TRUST you AND you WILL DO NUN you SHOULD NOT DO TELL HER THAT HER MO WILL BE THERE AND you JUST WANT TO SPEND TIME WITH HER!!!

Answer #8

no offense but lizzie that only works in movies I agree with frankie that is your best idea you have there bud.

Answer #9

Well you are too young, theres no avoiding that because you should hear that every time you have sex underage

If your mom won’t let you see your girlfriend then you have to win her trust back …or ask your dad instead?

Answer #10

I’m 14 too So tell your mom that your going 2 your friend’s house and that you will be back l8r if she ask why tell her its for a school project or something like that..

Answer #11

OMG are you insane! you mother might kill you if you keep on her about going!!! I would lay low for a while. and you really are young! I wouldn’t but hey that just me, if you think babies are fun to raise then maybe you should, because guess what… protection doesn’t always work, it breaks and your little sperms can get her prego!

Answer #12

thanks guys

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