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Choosing between two guys!!!

Ok. I have a major problem. Here it is. I had been going out with my boyfriend for a few weeks, when he started to treat me really bad. As in…if I could not meet up with him that weekend because of other commitments he would get really angry and accuse me of not putting any effort in the relationship. It got to the point where I completley cracked and pretty much pointed out everything he was doing that was upsetting me and how I was leaving if he didn’t change. But he did change. From that moment on, he became the best boyfriend. Like too nice. Always saying he loves me, is always there for me, gets on well with my parents etc etc. BUT at the same time we were having problems, my good friend told me he has feelings for me. I do like him as more then a friend as well. And I thought that I would be breaking up with my boyfriend soon anyway so I could tell my good friend this. But when my boyfriend changed, I was not sure what to do anymore. And I still am not. And its getting to the point where I am leading on two guys at once (without meaning to). I try to make a decsion but I just cant do it. Please HELP!!!

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Theres no way you like them exactly the same..I would pick the one you like more and in the best and nicest possible way break up with the other one..Im good friends with a married women and shes giving me the weirdest signs like telling me she loves then I would never cheat on my husband..Im like o.k you obvisously get off on mind games so I just forgot about her before I got further hurt..I would go with the guy whos your friend..If he likes you enough to just be friends for a time he doesnt care about sex,I mean he does but that means he likes you so much that he will take you anyway he can..

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