Can you love more than one person?

I’ve been best friends with this guy, Chris, for two years. He asked me out last year, but I turned him down. A month later I got together with my current boyfriend, Will. I’ve been dating him for over a year, but things between us are going horribly. Chris got together with his current girlfriend over the summer and has been dating her for seven months.

It wasn’t until he got a girlfriend when I realized how badly in love with him I am, and I have regret everyday for saying no. You truely don’t realize what you have until it’s gone. He loves his girlfriend. But I know at one point in time, he was in love with me, I want to know if that feeling towards me is still there.

Should I tell Chris how I feel and find out how he’s feeling too, or could that ruin a lot?

Answer #1

I think you should tell Chris how you really feel - see what he says - And if he dosent feel the same way - Leave him alone.

:)

Answer #2

Hmm…this one is tough. I think you should tell him, if things go wrong between them. Dont tell him right now, just watch what happens.

Answer #3

The thing is, me and him both still talk about missing the good ol’ days. Hanging out with eachother non-stop, chatting on the phone all night, holding hands…

He called me on the phone one night when I was having problems with my boyfriend (who just broke up with me a couple weeks earlier). He told me that if Will was meant to be in my life, then he will be… later though.

I think Chris could be meant to be in my life later, I just have to let him know what I’m feeling, right?

Answer #4

You need to leave Chris alone. You had your chance, and you didnt take it.

You truely don’t realize what you have until it’s gone.>> It took you 1 year to miss him? Sorry, but you only want him now because your unhappy in your current relationship! But I know at one point in time, he was in love with me.>>That was the past Hun, this is NOW …1 year later, and the fact that he has a girlfriend hes happy with, should tell how he feels about you. Its over, he has a new girl in his life, and you just have to accept that. Sometimes we dont get second chances! If your that unhappy with your boyfriend, then maybe its time you end it.

Answer #5

He is JUST being a friend, nothing more. You have to stop reading so much into everything he says. Him talking about the “good ol’ days doesnt mean he wants to go back to them with you. Its just making conversation, thats all. He has a girlfriend, and you should keep that in mind. Just because he talks to you, doesnt mean he wants you…!

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