Can I get my male friend back?

We’ve Talked A LOT over the phone, and we had ‘Some Most’ things in common except the whole “Oh, when you grow up. . just have kids like everyone else cause that’s the part of life.” NO IT ISN’T. I’m not like that. I’m against that. And no one will ever change my mind no matter How Hard They Try! So There! K, The Real Deal. We’d Talk for like, 2-3 Hours on the phone Every Day + Night. I thought , “This kid is doesn’t seem to be my kind cause he has an obviously ‘WeiRd’ Personality , but we do have good stuff in common and I like him” I never had a good friend as he until… . He would look at my pictures EVERY time we were on the phone and tell me how pretty and nice I looked. “K.” I thought. “ It’s Nothing , move on” THEN, as we talked more on the phone he would compliment me More than he should have, and it made me uncomfortable. Even though I love Compliments, He went over board.

So, one evening, I asked , “ We’re Friends , Right?” “Yeah.” he replied. (which was a Total LIE!) “O-k, then why do I get the feeling you want me more than a friend?” “I don’t want to talk about it.” He Said.

After that, we Never talked for about ..hmmm 3-4 months? I think.

But Tell me what you think.

When I see his face ever, should I steal him away and try to talk to him? But What would I Say??

He Still Owes me an apoligy too.

Tell me the best you’ve all got!

Thank you <3

Answer #1

Yeah, he obviously liked you and wanted to be with you, however being as it’s now several months later, it wouldn’t surprise me to believe that the strong feelings that he once had for you may have diminished. However unless he feels rejected a close friend would be willing to reconsider talking to you. But there is one thing you must remember, you confronted his feelings about you really upfront, he may have been shy about the situation and thought you didn’t want him to like you as much as he did. I don’t believe you should expect an apology out of him for other than “over complimenting” you he didn’t exactly do anything wrong unless you’re leaving out details. Details such as maybe he made inappropriate comments regarding private parts or how he wanted to indulge in an explicit relationship with you, anything of that sort i do believe he owes you an apology but otherwise no. Anyway if you were to confront him again, i believe you should take things simple, a regular, hey how have you been, i haven’t talked to you in a long time kind of conversation. Nothing too out of the ordinary otherwise he may feel uncomfortable and want to end the conversation as soon as possible. Hope i helped -JL/BC

Answer #2

Blackiechan, Thanks, I think you really helped on that one. I do admit thinking of him a little more than I thought I would. I still feel really bad about it :( . I Really hate to lose friends, and probably Should get him back. Even if he Is a total nerd, I’ll get him back. :) Thanks!

Jalper too, thanks!

Answer #3

You should really put yourself in his shoes, he likes you and was obviously embarressed by this whole situation. when you talk to him, make sure he understands that you still look at him in the same way, as a wonderful friend

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