me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while and we want to take the next step in our relationship yes (sex)we both know the consequences and

Whatever you do dont let him make the decision and just push u into it make sure he is the one and u aren’t goin to be stuck by urself and u end up pregnant or something please make the right decision.

Umm so i understand from all this that you are dating a guy that you like and relationship is going well and all.and you dont want your parents to know because if they did they will make you two break up.

Listen,i hope you understand that your parents want what’s good for you.you are 14,a kid in their eyes.you are way young and if it’s your boyfriend who’s been asking for this then ignore him.your life,study and happiness is much more important to you than anything else.and eventualy your parents will know about you dating this guy sooner or later from your friends or other way.what if you got pregnent and gaved birth to child that you are not ready at all for.your parents will be so mad and sad upset.will this guy be still with you and work to feed your baby.think about it because these are the chances.could you study and raise a child.too risky.i hope you do understand that iam not trying to be rude but just answering your question and seeing whats best for you from question you asked.i suggest you should let this second step for later when you are not too young and are responsible girl.and if you do it in future or whatever.have it saaafe.good luck!!

JUST WAIT!!! Stay focus on school.

Understand that all he wants is to do it! Idk him but I have known some people that the boy says I’ll love you forever of you do this and then the girl ends up pregnate and the guy leaves her! Have you ever seen Teen Mom? Don’t end up like that, unless you want to! Just say NO and good luck!

Dude, you’re 14. Enjoy being a kid! Sex complicates everything. Every time you have sex, you risk pregnancy. Don’t put that responsibility on your shoulders. You have all the time in the world to have sex. My advice is to wait…

If you are indeed 14, I recommend that you wait. Relationships at your age never last (even though they feel like they will). However, if you decide to go ahead, ONLY do it if YOU decide to. Almost every boy is eager (pathetically eager even) but the decision should be YOURS - not his. And possibly, for now, just use oral. If you two decide to go further, MAKE SURE that you use protection, which probably means a rubber. Those can be bought in any grocery, drug, and Dollar stores, and can usually be gotten for free at Planned Parenthood clinics everywhere - at the one in my town you walk in, say you would like some, and they hand you a bag of 6 or so, no questions. And don’t let his ‘unit’ anywhere near your downstairs without that protection in place first. Take care.