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Boyfriend cheats

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Last week my boyfriend went out and come back like 4 in the morning. He accidentally called me before he came back home so I heard him talking to a girl and I was sure they were in a Hotel room. When he came home he said he just met someone in lobby and talked to her. I didnt buy it..So I managed to unlock his phone and found a message saying “it was nice hanging with you last night and I would like to make an arrangement with you” etc… I told him that I know he was lying to me. So he admitted he was in a hotel room with a girl and he put a dog collar on her and pee on her…and who knows what else he was doing with her, probably has sex too. So basically he pays someone to do this kind of kinky stuff with him as I dont want to do it. I am just really confused what shall I do? Would you stay together with your partner in this situation. oh and he is constantly texting girls and flirting with them.

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Answer #1

Nope. Sounds like you need to leave him and move on. He’s either fufilling her fetish or his, with someone that isn’t you, while he’s whipping his junk out so I consider that sexual and cheating. Don’t trust a guy that’s constantly talking to and flirting with other girls.

Answer #2

That’s disgusting. Peeing on women is NOT okay, just by knowing that you can see how he enjoys degrading women. I can guarantee you that this is not the first time he has cheated on you. Leave this guy, he has no respect for you.

Answer #3

of course not why would you wanna be with someone who cheated hes gonna do it again…. and he flirts with other girls thats not cool he sounds like a weirdo you should break up with him..

Answer #4

Thanks for the answers. yeh he is a bad guy. The girl now knows that I am his gf and I just happened to see his new messages to the girl saying something about me like I am a flight attendant in Europe so basically she shouldn’t worry about us being serious…what a jerk

Answer #5

All the signs are there. Time to close this chapter and move on!

Answer #6

All the signs are there. Time to close this chapter and move on!

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