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Hey guys well what do you do when you have a boyfriend and well there is this other guy to that he likes you and you have feeling for him but your boyfriend loves you and you do too,,, but yea you like both guys… But what shud I do… I have ben going out with my babe for about 10 months and known this guy for one month but you me and him jux have that stare in the eyes were you know that that guy love you and he tell you he does and well we are both in the same dance krew and we always jux talk and talk abd caint focus on the dance steps… What shud I do… And well the guy gave me a kiss in the cheek and I don’t know I have ben feeling guilty all day long long what shud I do shud I tell my boyfriend ? Or what? Help me?

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Answer #1

Do you love your boyfriend? Then stay with him. In relationships there will sometimes be temptations, but if you are really mature and responsible enough for a relationship you will stand up for your relationship and not let anyone get between you and your boyfriend. By 10 months you two should be in a serious and trusting relationship.

Cool down on the flirting with the other guy, at most just be friends with him. Nothing more. Then tell your boyfriend that your friend in your dance crew kissed you on the cheek, but reassure him that you love your him, and that the other guy’s just a friend, and he was just being friendly.

Then maybe, you two can set some boundaries in your relationship. For example, some couples think flirting is cheating, while some couples think kissing on the cheek is cheating. Work it out with your boyfriend to make sure both of you know what is ok and what isn’t in the relationship.

And if the other guy still tries to kiss you and stuff, just make it clear to him that you have a boyfriend and you’re in a serious relationship.

Answer #2

If you love him - than don’t leave him for some guy you met only a month ago. Don’t cheat on your boyfriend, it’ll hurt him badly, and it’ll start a whole bunch of unnecessary drama that you could’ve avoided also it’ll get you a reputation that you wouldn’t want. Just tell the boy on your dance crew you want to be friends, and nothing more. If he still tries to put the moves on you, than stop talking to him and see what he does because obviously he doesn’t respect you enough to leave you and your boyfriend alone. Talk to your man about him kissing you on the cheek, but break it to him nicely, and tell him it was nothing more. You weren’t trying to replace him or anything and let him know your heart is his and only his.

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