booty call or possible relationship

The only person who knows the answer his him. You could come out and ask him but the chances are he would tell you he loved you even if he didn’t ( some boys do anything to get in to your pants). Just give it time and wait. His actions would be a good indicator. If he wants to be with you all the time and texts you all the time then it’s likely he does actually want to be with you. if he only calls you now and again and sometimes seems distant then its likely your just a booty call.

“oh and I wouldn’t let him finger me or go any further until we went out”

It’s not about letting him do it. it’s about you WANTING to do it. never do anything you do not want to. Especially in sex, trust me you will regret it as I’m sure many people will agree.

I think you’re doing the right thing by not letting things go further until you date, that’s the best thing to do at this point. It sounds to me like he does have interest in you or else he most likely wouldn’t call you the next day. Just take things slow, talk to him about your feelings, ask him how he feels about you, etc.

I agree, if he wanted a booty call he wouldnt have called back to hang out, BUT because you didnt go all the way, who knows,,play it safe and give it time,,,dont do more then kissing…actually it is true that if I girl goes all the way with a guy the 1st time or so…he loses interest…she is easy and guys really dont want that in someone that is for real and long term