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best friends in love but we have spouses

I am in love with my best friend and she is in love with me. she has a husband and she is pregnant. I am re-married with 2 children who live with they’re mother. we talk to each other everyday. we hurt when we are apart, almost like twins. when we are together everything feels right and perfect. it almost feels like reincarnated lovers who have found each other. we tell each other everything and I mean everything and don’t lie or keep any secrets from one another. we have made love and it was the best and most magical experience we have ever had. we are so right for each other. we have talked at length about this but haven’t come up with a solution. we both love our spouses but are not in love with them like we are in love with each other. I have been stepping aside for her husband which is only right. she loves me more but im in second place in her life. is there a solution other that wait to see if the marriages work out? I am having a hard time now. she is all I think about dream about. I live and breathe her. I am going out of my mind. I used to be strong enough to handle this but now im not sure.

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Answer #1

keep holding in there if you love her as much as you say you do then youll just have to wait in teh sidelines for things to fall into place. remember shes pregnant so she might want to work things out for the baby’s sake. have you talked about her leaving her husband? its not much fair to the poor guy if she dsnt lovehim the same way… but remember that the baby complicates everything, so talking to her about it might be the best if things dont work out then your just gonna have to suck it up and be there for her as her support not her lover.. or you can be that too if thats what she wants.

Answer #2

wow thats really messed up BUT if you both love eathother it will work out just fine have her tell her husband and you tell your wife

Answer #3

we havnt had sex in a long time. I said we have had sex, long time ago. she is pregnant and is doing everything she can for the good of the baby including no sex. our relationship is complicated, the reason we are married to other people is my fault. I am in the military and I married and had kids while I was away and as you can see it didnt work out. I have always made sacrifices and done whats best for her even at my own expence and suffering. I am just wondering what others think.

Answer #4

okay, First of all thats the devil playing mnd games with you to making you unfaithful. Why would you get married if you werent 100% on if you loved her, I think you should srsly GET AWAY from her, Your not only hurting her Family and kids, But Your screwing up her baby LIke OMG DONT YOU KNOW THAT WHEN YOUR PREGNANT EVERYTHING YOU DO EFFECTS THE BABY! SHES PREGNANT AND I BET YOU ANY $$ That kid is going to grow up F’ed from you and hers stupid fullish acts.. I Srsly Hope you guys get some Mental help.. I think You are messed up and YOu need some HELP! Dont Go having sex with her while shes having a baby Man wtf is wrong with you? BOTH Of you I think all your kids should be taken away… GROSS people are soo gross I cant believe you have people actully saying to hold on and stuff like… Srsly you see what the world is comming to ? BTW Im like 1/2 your age and know better then you ! Sicko.

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