Am I being over the top?

So my friends agree, maybe it’s just me, but they think that I am going on the top a bit. They always think that I’m a little too harsh when it comes to guys and such. So there is this one guy, he’s 23. We met at a convention where he asked me out for coffee. I was shocked, I don’t get asked out and I’m only 17 so I was like, “yeah, no I have to go somewhere” pointed and left. Now we’ve been talking a bit. My friend thought it would be funny to give him my msn. So we’ve been talking and he’s really nice. When we first started talking he was always asking me out for coffee and such but I was always saying no. I won’t lie, I was rude, and cold as I could be, online. In a classy way. He’s be like, “What’s your favourite place to be?” And I would respond with something like, “Do you expect me to actually say something that might give you a clue of who I am? You’re a creep.” But for some reason he fought through it. And now he’s been calling me and we text a lot…and he makes me get angry but is also really nice and makes me laugh. But he has no idea how old I am. And the other day he called and we talked for 2 hours. I’m not even a phone person!! I don’t even talk to my best friend like that I don’t know how I did it. And just now, we were talking and he said a little something to set me off. And keep in mind this is all through technology, so we’re always misunderstanding eachother. We were talking and then I said the word ‘totally’ and he started to make fun of me, talking in the stereotypical teenage slang, things like “omg, like totally, ahaha lol, like omg. k your so kewl” and things like that. I laughed, but then he was all “You talk like that a lot obviously” and I said “No, no I don’t” And he said, “ Really? Are you sure?” And I said, “I guess you’ll never find out, take my word for it, I know what I’m talking about”

And then he just said, “I guess not.” Have I crushed all hopes of this guy? His hopes of meeting me? And it hit me, if he’s been persistant enough to go past even my bitter and cold comments to actually talk to me and I being over the top with this? Maybe he actually is a nice guy? And suddenly, I get sad at the thought of us not talking anymore. But I also feel as if I have been too harsh, should I really expect him to think something will come of this? Should I lighten up??

I suck at relationships. I have never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, never been on a date, anything, I’m proud of it, but people say it’s because I’m very intimidating.

Maybe I should lighten up on this guy? What do you think his motives are? Tell me what you would do, please tell me anything…I’m so confused!!!