Do I break up with him or keep trying to make it work?

O.k, Me and my bf have been going out for about two months now and I'm getting really different vibes from him. At first we were really close, like for the first 2 or three weeks but now we're not. We used to see each other every day for at least an hour. He's a year older than me so we go to different schools. He lives close enought that he can bike over to my house but he doesn't anymore. We we're inseperable like for the first month and now we are totally distant. I call him and if he's not home i leave a message telling him to call me back….he doesn't. He asked me to come over yesterday which was the first time in a few weeks, but then he called me back telling me that I couldn't. I guess his parents said no or something. I'm getting really bad vibes from him and I just want things to go back to the way they were. Now lately I've been thinking about breaking up but when I actually talk to him and try to do it, i can't. I really don't want to break up with him but i feel like i have no other option. What should i do? PLEASE HELP ME!!!

Answer #1

well personally i think you should either talk to him or break up with him. it really seems like you dont want to but if he is making you really unhappy like that then there is really no point in going out with him. but if you feel better talking to him dont make him feel guilty becuase then he will just feel bad and you dont want that. so tell him how you feel or just break up with him.

Answer #2

hey caitlin the other day u posted advie on my question u told me the way to get to feel my g/f is to play the nervous game but my friends and i dont know what the game is or how to play it can you please tell me how just post another advice on my new question thanks alot

Mikey

Answer #3

Thanks Britt, I tried to tlak to him the other day but my mom made me get off the phone. I started to tell him how i felt but I couldn't finish. I think that he took well what I said to him but I still think that maybe he doesn't feel the same way about me. I talked to his brother the other day and he told me that HE does like me and that he always has. But then my friend told me that he doesn't like me and he never did. And my bf won't say whether he does or doesn't. Thanks for the advice though. I'll try to finish talking ot him tonight. -Caitlin

Answer #4

Thanks Britt, I tried to tlak to him the other day but my mom made me get off the phone. I started to tell him how i felt but I couldn't finish. I think that he took well what I said to him but I still think that maybe he doesn't feel the same way about me. I talked to his brother the other day and he told me that HE does like me and that he always has. But then my friend told me that he doesn't like me and he never did. And my bf won't say whether he does or doesn't. Thanks for the advice though. I'll try to finish talking ot him tonight. -Caitlin

Answer #5

Thanks Britt, I tried to tlak to him the other day but my mom made me get off the phone. I started to tell him how i felt but I couldn't finish. I think that he took well what I said to him but I still think that maybe he doesn't feel the same way about me. I talked to his brother the other day and he told me that HE does like me and that he always has. But then my friend told me that he doesn't like me and he never did. And my bf won't say whether he does or doesn't. Thanks for the advice though. I'll try to finish talking ot him tonight. -Caitlin

Answer #6

Ok, here’s what going on, the guys parents won’t let him see you for reasons unknown to you, so try to get him in public, like at walmarrt or something, and just ask, “hey, what the f man? I’m your girlfrien so since we’re here, buy a f** walkey-talkey that way we can f** talk. Luv you babe.” Then walk away, leaving the message to creep into his slow little mind.

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