What do you think of shy people versus loud and out there people?

Like when you come across someone who is really quite and shy, what are your thoughts? Do you think you have to be delicate with them? Do you assume anything? Would you even converse with someone who seemed really shy?

Answer #1

I don’t think much of anything o.o but I like talking to shy people and getting them to open up and feel comfortable talking to me. It’s like a challenge. lol I like challenges. And I like people xD I don’t assume anything that’s just how some people are, shy. lol xD I don’t feel like I have to be delicate with them, just more outgoing. Have to talk more to make up for their quietness till they start talking.(: I most certainly would converse with someone who seemed really shy.

Answer #2

Not everyone is willing to converse with someone who is really shy.. Thats why I asked for opinions..

Answer #3

I love talking to shy people, I normally know how to make them feel at ease and they start talking away :)

Answer #4

Nobody has ever told me that they don’t like talking to shy people before. :o

Answer #5

… Just because someone doesnt say something doesnt mean anything.. Duhhh

Answer #6

Thats good, lol..

Answer #7

I’m very shy so I tend to not do well at conversation, but I like talking to other shy people.. when I can think of stuff to say.

Answer #8

Astoria could you please be more respectful with me. You are acting slightly rude and I didn’t even say anything in my reply about me believing that everyone likes talking to shy people. I just said back to what your comment was that I hadn’t heard from anyone that didn’t like talking to shy people. and in my post here I was just telling you how I feel about them. I was just stating my opinion like you asked for it. What’s with the “Just because someone doesnt say something doesnt mean anything.. Duhhh” I don’t really understand your purpose of replying that, it just sounded rude and childish.

Answer #9

I don’t think you seem shy at all Joshua. :P

Answer #10

I actually am. :P I’ve become less shy as I’ve gotten older but still very shy.. You should have seen me 5 years ago.. haha

Answer #11

Same here!!!!!Lol

Answer #12

Rude? Maybe.. Childish? Sure… Do I care?? NOOOOOOPEE ;)

Answer #13

Good luck with your life dude. You should care how you treat other people.

Answer #14

Because Im not nice to you?? Gettt over it… & Please dont worry about my life

Answer #15

o.O Are you trying to be rude? I just don’t understand what reason you would possibly have to be rude to me, it’s not like I ever did anything to you at all and I am asking you to be more respectful with me and treat me like an equal person but if you can’t do that then you are just making yourself look very low. This is an advice site and I try to be caring towards most people. Being rude like that won’t help you in life. If you don’t care, then that’s your problem.

Answer #16

I’m not shy or outgoing so when I talk to shy people I feel like I have to use certain words and with overly loud people I just wanna say shut the hell up… Basically it’s better to be in the middle

Answer #17

I can’t distinguish shy people from people who are introverted so I just approach them like I do with every other person on this green planet, with a “how ya doin” and a bro fist ‘cause a bro fist is just that awesome.

Answer #18

well then quite talkin to her lily and quite trying to change people,, sheesh! maybe you need to take ur niceness somewere else :) k?

Answer #19

i like loud ppl more:”)

Answer #20

Lolol

Answer #21

Well if you are going to tell me to stop trying to change her. I can tell you stop trying to change me. I don’t just shut up when someone is down putting and rude and I don’t like crappy behavior in our peaceful little FunAdvice. If you have a problem with me asking her to treat me better then that’s your problem and not your place to cut in. If I wanna be treated better after I am completely nice to her then there shouldn’t be a problem with me asking for that.

Answer #22

Well are you dumb? Constantly stalking me and responding to all my posts telling me to change hasnt worked.. So why are you still doing it? I am who I am and Im not going to apologize about it, so get over it..

Answer #23

I am not stalking you XD I’m not dumb either. :P and I am not still doing it. I am telling this girl that replied here that I was not wrong for doing it and I would do it again. XD You are not a rude person you only choose to be rude, there is a difference. I never asking for an apology I only asked for you to treat me better but I got it that you don’t care already and so I don’t expect any nice, controlled behavior from you so I am over it.

Answer #24

I was never

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