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Friday night, I went to a baseball game and I noticed that my buddy’s girl brought a friend. We hung out after the baseball game, and we had a ton of fun joking and laughing, and eventually watched a little of a movie until she was too tired and went to bed. I walked her back to her room and if it wasn’t for her brother being in the building looking down at her, I would have given her a hug goodnight. I’ve invited her to hang out with me last night, but she said she was too tired, and it was 11:15 at night when I asked her. I saw her tonight as she was headed to a friends room in her dorm. My buddies were giving me a hard time cause they knew I liked her. Then they told me that she had a boyfriend. I guess I have the worst luck with girls cause three nights ago, I was having a blast with her, but now I’m kinda down in the dumps. What should I do now?

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Answer #1

I’m going to give you my honest opinion, and I hope you dont take it the wrong way, but I know a lot of guys like you. You meet a girl, and you try to make more out of the situation than there really is…then you fall VERY fast for her. You just met her, and only spent a few hours together (as a group), she was tired you walked her back to her dorm, and right away you think theres some kind of chemistry between you. A hug isnt a big thing, but you just met! You need to first start each relationship as friends, take it slow, and recognize that someone out there is right for you. The secret is to not scare them off being so anxious. Girls dont like guys who are needy, and fall so easily.

Answer #2

She has a boyfriend, there isn’t much you can do really. Either you try and get over here; stay away from her. Or wait around for her =/ Don’t let things get you down. && anyways, she may be a really horrid person deep down, you don’t even know her that well. If it’s meant to be then it’ll work out. If not you may end up with someone even better suited to you, who you have even more of a blast with. Keep smileing && everything will be fine :)

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