who can I tell about my dad?

He constantly calls me ugly, says I have an ugly personality, says I’m fat, stupid, a twat, an idiot, threatens he’ll smash my head against a wall and threatens me with other violent things too, if I do the slightest thing he doesn’t want.

Like I went just before to get my phone charger and he told me if I didnt get to bed he’d stot my head so hard against the wall it would smash. I got the charger because it was right next to me but he starts calling me all sorts again.

I don’t know what to do. I’m so sick of it. I can’t stand it anymore. He’s absoultely shattered my confidence and then he acts as though it my fault. My mam doesn’t give a cr@p. She just gets annoyed at me.

What can I do?

Answer #1

the poilce is hes threatening u! thats a serious problem!

Answer #2

you are being inflicted by your dad an emotional abuse. talk to your teacher or any trustworthy adult you know about it if your mom doesn’t care. seek for counselling too and get all the help you need to bring your self confidence back.

Answer #3

wow thats bad…my dad used to say “ill hit you so hard, you’ll never forget it…” I as really scared…he stopped now (4 years later) but my mom helped me get over it…you should call child services or something…

Answer #4

hun, he may be your dad but you cant let him keep up the act. have you asked why is is being this way? go over your best mates house tell them wats been going on if you havnt alredy and tell their parents, they will know what to do. the police are likely to be involved so you just need to keep your head up and realise the whole point is to give yourself a better life. you should know ther is always someone willing to help you. stay strong much s2

Answer #5

This isn’t love, can you talk to your Mom, if not tell one of your teachers…Leave if you can…Be safe

Answer #6

aww thats serious stuff..I get yelled t for no apparent reason..my twin is like the angel and me to my dad im like the devil. I sware sometimes I cant wait till I go t college because im gna go prettty far so I don’t have do her his shyt.

you should find a councelor* or a person you talk to with…or talk to friends. if your in hs, as yuor guidence councelor for someone to see, are talk it out with her/him

someone will help you, you just have to find a councelor. look online for some near you and call them and ask if yu can either talk right there with them or make an app. and see them theyll help you

if you need to talk about anything with this because its likke the same for me with out the smashing of my head on a wall, and certain names, message me and ill talk with you.I know how it feels=/

xox

Answer #7

seriously you need to call up children’s aid or something if your under 16. 16 you can move out and go on student welfare but holy crap your parents are ignorant. get some counsilling too! my dad is the same with the threatening but calling you fat and ugly? and A TWAT? hello does he not know that means vagina.. like SHYT.

Answer #8

hunni, you need to tell someone right away. This is defiantly not right. He should not be treating you like this, its abuse. Find someone you trust and tell them

Answer #9

Probably go to a school counciler; Or call an organisation that deals with youth and their problems. And thats where you will get the best advice.

Answer #10

This is really serious and you should probably tell somebody. In the mean time, try and stay out of his way, go to a friends house or something. If you need someone to talk to, id recommend Action For Children. There a charity that you can call up and talk to and they can help you and give you advice, just google them :) And im available to talk to anyone, I’m a kid too but I seem to help most of my friends and people I don’t know with there most serious problems. Just send me a comment or mail :)

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