Is this right

Just like you said stand up to her and explaine that yall have lives to and that she needs to find other alternitives for her children. And if the 3year old is still struggling finding a nice Preschool will help with that. Maybe you could do a little research for her and give her a list of daycares and preschools for her chilren and tell her that she needs to go check them out because it is becoming to much of a burden on us and we just cant do it anymore. As far as the divorce is she was really getting a divorce she would do it while he is in jail, it would be a ton easier than to wait till he gets out. So to me she claims she is getting a divorce but in reality sshe is using your whole family including your brother and waiting for there dad to come home to start a relationship with him again. I could 100% guarente that is what she is doing.

Both men need to MAN-UP. Your dad needs to stop being a doormat, needs to take charge, grow up, get a job, and stop supporting your brother’s scumbag move of living with a married woman. Your brother needs to stop being a slime-ball and move out of this woman’s house. If she’s not going to do the right thing of divorcing her husband, but instead be unfaithful and abandon her kids with somebody that isn’t their parent, isn’t even their parent’s PARENT- then she’s a real quality act too. Your brother sounds like a real ‘nice’ guy- he has no problem using his own father for childcare, and he has no problem using this other man’s wife and family as his campgrounds for the time being.

You’re right- this is a horribly WRONG situation- easily remedied by both men getting a spine and acting like a real man.

she already filed, for divorce, and we believe the baby girl is my brothers, but I guess that is what we have to do, I will start calling daycares for her!! thankas

Funmail me we can talk more, Part of me sees you wanna talk about this and I will liisten. or email butterflywingsacademy@yahoo.com.

thanks, and he doesn’t thinks she is his, my mom, I, and my sister do, he has a connection with her, that I have never seen in him before, and she looks a lot like him as a baby! but thanks for your help

my bros girl, is divorcing him when he gets out jail, and is living wiht my ro he isn’t living at her place, anyway I can tell dad/bro to stand up to this girl!!!

I guess your right, but my mom and I have to go and babysit her 3 yeaqr old son…who can barely talk bcause she never spends time with him, and her 1 year old, who can barely crawl, for the smae reason, it is so frustrating, mom, dad, and I only take care of the kids because we can teach them a little so they can have a chance, and because otherwise my brother would lose his job. how can we get her to realize mom, dad and I are not at her beck and call, without ruining the relationship with my brother?

Oh, I misunderstood when you said ‘he is living with his girlfriend’- thought that meant he was living at her place, not she was living with him at his. Anyways, either way, she has THREE men wrapped around her finger and doing her bidding… she’ll probably be happy to use your dad and brother as milk-cows for as long as she can. Your dad deserves his life and his time back- but he’s going to have to do that for himself. :) I hope they DO stand up to her, and that your dad also stands up to your brother.