http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/youmakemeesmile1 My name is Jackie, Im a 15 year old freshman at GV. I play lacrosse and soccer, and I snowboard. I have a pretty good head on my shoulders, and Im a pretty practical person and have a tenency to think things through very clearly. So let me know if you need any help... Im always here! en-us (I was referring to bigandripped) youmakemeesmile1 Wed, 14 Jun 2006 10:44:24 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_it_ok_to_encourage_your_bf_if 14808 But they will wait long enough. Some of them are just jerks... your a perfect example. youmakemeesmile1 Tue, 13 Jun 2006 20:52:21 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_it_ok_to_encourage_your_bf_if 14776 What is Bigandripped talking about? Dont listen to him whatsoever, not many guys are like him. If you dont want to, dont do it, and he will just have to accept that until your ready. I know its easier said than done, but dont risk hurting yourself mentally if your not ready. youmakemeesmile1 Mon, 12 Jun 2006 19:34:49 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_it_ok_to_encourage_your_bf_if 14726 Take a step back and look at what your arguing about, if its not that big of a deal, tell him that. You will probably both agree its not worth the negative energy. youmakemeesmile1 Mon, 12 Jun 2006 19:28:34 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/arguments_972 14725 Shes definately selfish, it sounds like shes in it for the things. Relationships arent about buying things for eachother its about the LOVE. I think shes a gold digger. youmakemeesmile1 Fri, 09 Jun 2006 15:40:57 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_my_girlfriend_a_golddigger 14623 If by everyone you mean YOU... your wrong. No one else thinks that about her and neither should you. Obviously if you knew her, you wouldnt say that because then youd be lying... but of course we all know how good of a liar you are. youmakemeesmile1 Fri, 09 Jun 2006 14:11:43 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/moving_forward 14620 Eh, I admit Ive done it before. Its not a wrong feeling to be insecure. If you really like this guy, you have to trust that he wont hurt you in the long run. Keep the other guy as a friend, which I know is hard to do. youmakemeesmile1 Wed, 07 Jun 2006 20:23:21 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/to_date_2_boys_at_the_same_time 14565 Go with Jeff! You want Jeff! Ive heard you say it a million times how much you want him! And if your really that unsure dont choose yet! You really dont have to. Date both of them until you are ready with your decision, that can change eventually. youmakemeesmile1 Wed, 07 Jun 2006 20:21:02 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_if_i_am_making_a_big_mistake 14564 Step back and look at the big picture... see if what your crying for is worth your tears. youmakemeesmile1 Sun, 04 Jun 2006 19:36:30 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/depression_crying 14421 Try squats and lunges youll feel them very quickly. youmakemeesmile1 Sun, 04 Jun 2006 14:37:21 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/somethin_i_left_out 14410 If you have comcast digital cable there are some programs there that you can do ab work to. Also, if you need it quick, i would suggest going on a low carb diet, because thats where your carbs go to. Make sure that you alternate days from cardio to abs (It takes a day for your abs to heal after a good work out). youmakemeesmile1 Sun, 04 Jun 2006 14:30:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_can_you_get_a_flat_tummy 14408 They have the eh, machines that you can push (go to lowes or another home improvement store) and it will evenly spred the seeds along your lawn, and then you should put down hay which will help the grass grow quicker. youmakemeesmile1 Sun, 04 Jun 2006 14:26:42 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_can_i_reseed_my_lawn 14405 You should be fine right after your period because you ovulate some 10 days into your period cycle. But you can never be too safe. youmakemeesmile1 Sun, 04 Jun 2006 14:25:09 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/sex_and_ovulateing 14404 Dont worry about it! Thats really small for your height. Im 5ft 1 and weigh more than you, but you need to realize that muscle weighs more that fat, so if your very muscular your weight will show up higher than it would if it was fat. But trust me, you are very small for your height. youmakemeesmile1 Sun, 04 Jun 2006 14:20:52 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/am_i_fat_chubby 14402 Do something meaningful that came up in a conversation. Like for one of my X's I got him a guitar pick holder because he said he was always loosing his guitar picks. You just need to listen to what he says. You could always get him a hat or something... I did that too. If you know what kinds of bands he likes you could get him a band tee shirt, or even just a normal tee shirt from his favorite store. There are plenty of options. What about a gag gift? youmakemeesmile1 Sun, 04 Jun 2006 14:17:02 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_gift_is_great 14400 Well, look at it this way... they arent going to change, so dont worry about it. And well, if it does end up being a problem (I dont know how) talk to your doctor, they will know. youmakemeesmile1 Sun, 04 Jun 2006 14:14:25 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/the_size_of_my_nipples 14399 That had nothing to do with the situation. Im just saying that why couldnt you just have been like "No" instead of wording it in a way that SOUNDS like your telling her that she doesnt have common sense? (Im reffering to what he said)Its called common respect... use it. youmakemeesmile1 Sun, 04 Jun 2006 14:11:35 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_it_possible_981 14398 Hahaha, you sound like a girl feeling hard to get. So basically your saying, that you dont hold doors for girls all the time because you want them to feel special when you do? Yeah, thats not the truth, girls DO feel specail when you hold the door for the whether its 1st time or the 100th time. Yeah, I admit there are some mean girls out there, but then again, there are the mean boys out there. And were gonna have our seperate opinions because we are two 100% oposite people in two 100% situations, and were just going to have to accept that. youmakemeesmile1 Sun, 04 Jun 2006 14:08:22 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_me_make_it_last 14397 Trust me, Im a girl, and I am very well aware that there IS and inbetween. You may not agree with me, but I Know that there are many guys that i have NO IDEA about, and you know, thats ok. Its going to come with time, so you just have to wait until you know. youmakemeesmile1 Sun, 04 Jun 2006 11:27:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/wat_do_i_do 14389 Awww, the love thing is good! Just remember not to crowd her too much, unless she wants to be. If she REALLY "loves" you she will want to be crowded. But, we all know, even at my age (15) love is more of a lust. You see, I would want to be crowded by a boy if I really liked him. And the whole band thing is good, you could really use that to your advantage. Try to do some stuff for that together, like start small projects. Have her ask her brother if you guys could make signs or something. Thats something fun to do together, and a good excuse to see her. There are plenty of fun things to do... it seems like you have it down! And good job with the kissing it seems like youll be just fine. Remember Im always here if you need any more help! Jackie youmakemeesmile1 Sun, 04 Jun 2006 11:24:56 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/relationship_builders 14388 You really have to answer the question: Is this guy really the person you want to spend the rest of your life with? Otherwise hes just another time your life leading you up to the person you will be with. Now, Im not saying dump him, but what if he really did have it? You dont see a future do you? Then, theres your answer... you dont WANT to be with him! And isnt there a chance he doesnt have it? You may be worrying over nothing, at least we can hope so! But if you really love him, and want to be with him, stay with him. Just support him as much as you can. You need to figure out if its lust or love. Goodluck! youmakemeesmile1 Sun, 04 Jun 2006 09:08:42 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/herpes_and_boyfriend 14381 Eh, but the thing is, you know its not right. What if your husband was doing that to you? ITS WRONG. Look at all of the things that could happen if you were caught. What about your daughter? What about your husband? How nastey of a divorce would that be? What about your Friend with Benifit's family? You really have to step back and look at the big picture. But anyways, for your question, you are going to be emotionally attatched; theres nothing you can do about it. Your going to be attatched because this is like new love, its exciting, adventurous, and everything of your marraige from the begining. This is just higher risks which makes it soooo much more exciting. But the thing is, your going to do something bad until your caught. Compare it to a teenager drinking, they are going to drink until they get into trouble, so why would they stop before hand if they enjoy it? So what I think you should do is look at all of the possibilities of what could happen in the future, write them down, and then make sure that you burn them so no one can see. Then you have to choose what YOUR going to want to happen. Good luck! youmakemeesmile1 Sun, 04 Jun 2006 09:00:46 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_i_protect_my_heart_in_an_affair 14379 Hes going off to college! Hes going to be gone for a while. I would suggest that you keep in touch with him, and do what you want with him when hes home. Unless hes at a close college, Id look into another guy. Who says you cant always keep him in the back of your mind? Hes coming home probably over the holidays, so you can see him then. Just realize that hes going to have changed a little or a lot. If your really interested in him, try calling him up. Or plan a road trip near his college and tell him your up there. If its meant to be, youll pull it off. Goodluck! youmakemeesmile1 Sun, 04 Jun 2006 08:48:15 -0700 14377 Ok, what I would do if I were you would tell your mom that you have really bad period cramps and want to go on birth control to help relieve them. She will take you to the women's doctor, and you can either pretend like you really do have them or you can tell them the truth. Either way, they will give you the pill. Goodluck! youmakemeesmile1 Sun, 04 Jun 2006 08:41:17 -0700 14376 So basically you then decide to be the bad guy? Ok, so Im a nice girl, and I only get stepped on sometimes when I dont give a boy what I want but then the nice guy comes along and I know those bad boys arent worth my time. Not all girls at bad/mean! You are going to have to realize that. And there is no way your going to be respected in life with an attitude like that. youmakemeesmile1 Sun, 04 Jun 2006 08:36:41 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_me_make_it_last 14375