http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/wonluv en-us I don' tbelieve in evolution. Do you realize how absolutely perfect the planets are in order in our solar system? That if they were off the slightest bit we would all go hurdling out to space being knocked off balence of gravitational pull? For every scientist who has a proven theory for evolution, ther is another with a proven theory for creation. The fact is scientist don't know much as they think they do. The world used tobe flat, remember? All the scientist said so. It's just a matter of spirituallity. I don't believe everything was accidential. Really, how logical is it to say running waters of rivers that feed trees, that give off oxygen that allows all man and animals to breathe, trees tat grow natural fruits and vegetables that nurish us, natural medecines that grow in the earth, the sun allowing just enoughl ight and heat for us to survive without getting scorched. We have been placed here with all things we would ever need. The only messed up parts about the world are the ones we created with pollution, and violence etc. all that was a coinsidence ? Some big bang put the world in exact, perfect astronomical order ? That does not sound logical to me at all. Only God could create such a plan. wonluv Wed, 05 Mar 2008 08:14:25 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/evolution_129621 249965 I won't lie, ababy at 14 will be very tough, it sounds like you are moreworried about what kids at school will say, they will be tough too. but, stop being selfesh, this isn't just about you anymore. Having a baby won't RUIN your life. But it will make you grow up much faster. Sometimes having an abortion is harder than having a baby. You can learn to cope and raise your child (with help for now). There are plenty of women in college that are moms too. It's time to "man up", Take responsibility. If you sincerely cannot handle it, find a family to adopt your baby. They will even let you pick them out. There are good, loving people in the world whocan not have kids and you could help them complete there family. It is much more humane than killing your child. That nightmare will live with you forever. Tell your parents, you need some support right now other than a chat room. Good luck wonluv Wed, 05 Mar 2008 07:51:47 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/pregnant_keep_it_or_not 249936 you sound very level headed and smart, but as a mom of 3 I can be the first to tell you that having ababy for that unconditional love... don't work. Parents give unconditional love, kids drive you unconditionally crazy !!(ha ha). And I used to babysit and loved it, but having your own is sooo much different. Sounds like you have a good man and you are headed in the right direction, but just not quite there yet. Listen, now at your age is the time where you set up how you want the rest of your life to be. I love being a mom, but I wish so much that I would have done other things first, I want my kids to live in a good neighborhood, go to good schools, and now I'm struggling with working and trying to go to nursing school. WOW- HARD!! But the worst part is now I have to take that time away from my kids because I didn't do it first and I hate that. And I have a good man helping me too. But, it takes 2 to work to pay the bills now-a-days. If you really want what is best for your future children, establish a good home first. I know you r anxious, but life throws so much at us we are not ready for. Things that were so important to me at 16, don't mean a whole lot to me now at 29. Work on yourself for now, the rest will come. wonluv Wed, 05 Mar 2008 07:37:28 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/im_16_and_would_really_like_to_have 249925