FunAdvice Advice from: whoneedsahug http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/whoneedsahug HI! My names Marilyn, I'm 16 years old. Im 5 feet and very small. I love to laugh... you could say its one of my hobbies:P. I consider myself weird. Im outgoing and not afraide to meet new ppl... btw HI what your name:D:P. Uh I have a lil obsession with dogs and I play the piano. I love to help anyone out with anything, even if its just to talk about irelevant things or for me to just listen... Im here for ya stranga's! <3 en-us Re: Is it okay to still kiss my dad? it perfetly fine! im 16 and I still kiss my mom and dad. good for you btw, if you still kiss your parents that means you have a relationship with them which is rare noadays. Hope I helped! feel free to fun main me:D whoneedsahug Sat, 16 Aug 2008 21:01:13 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_it_okay_to_still_kiss_my_dad 486763 Re: 5 years and still dreaming OOh im intrigued... can't wait to hear more... :P Hope it turns out good :D whoneedsahug Sat, 16 Aug 2008 18:06:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/5_years_and_still_dreaming 486563 Re: promise ring great! glad I could help! GOOD LUCK! whoneedsahug Sat, 16 Aug 2008 10:23:34 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/promise_ring_80044 486108 Re: promise ring well if its mutal then I think its fine. You both are getting them. You should get matting type ones, that would be soo cute whoneedsahug Sat, 16 Aug 2008 10:20:07 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/promise_ring_80044 486102 Re: Guys, what is your favourite cologne to wear? Advice Please! I know I'm not a guy but I've gotten cologn for male family before. My brother like Swiss Army and my dad like Alfred Sung for men. Ohh also there stuff out there called Ferrari and Hummer that smell sooo good but is really exspensive. Also Axe is good. Hope I helped! whoneedsahug Sat, 16 Aug 2008 10:13:19 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/guys_what_is_your_favourite_cologne 486096 Re: Fear of? Simple. You like your "friend" better than your boyfriend. I'd segust going with your "friend with bennefits" and making him your "boyfriend whos really good" lol. Then that would also get rid of the fact you are cheating on your current boyfriend. Hope I helped! whoneedsahug Sat, 16 Aug 2008 10:10:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/fear_of 486092 Re: promise ring what you mean? get your girl a promise ring? or be given one by your girl? whoneedsahug Sat, 16 Aug 2008 10:07:40 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/promise_ring_80044 486090 Re: Periodd Ya No worries... this is a late bloomer talking. I didn't get mine till I was 16... you know what that means? I didn't have breasts will I was 15... I even played a 10 year old in my school play I was so underdeveloped. But no worries... I caught up. Usually you start your period a year and a half to 2 years after you start developing breasts. There are also other signs that I can tell you about if your curious. Just Fun Mail Me:D Hope I helped! whoneedsahug Sat, 16 Aug 2008 09:48:44 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/periodd_134053 486071 Re: Gooey grossness!! Since your only 13, you might not have strated your period. I didn't get mine till 2 weeks after my 16th birthday...but for over a year before I got my period I had the discharge. its normal. I just wore really really thin pantiliners. You may start your period anytime or in a year and a half all depends how far along you are in puberty. Hope I helped. Feel free to Fun Mail Me:D! whoneedsahug Sat, 16 Aug 2008 06:30:42 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/gooey_grossness 485860 Re: need a special nickname for my best friend! Fonz(Ehhh)? Teedo (the dog from Toco Bell commericials:P)? Skittles(all that good stuff...all the colours of the rainbow:P)? I nickname a few friends by putting 'sters' at the end... so how about mansters? Hope I helped! Need more Advice? Fun Mail Me:D whoneedsahug Sat, 16 Aug 2008 06:00:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/need_a_special_nickname_for_my_best 485832 Re: How to act normal around people? Ok please be yourself. Don't change. I've look for weirdness in guys as an atribute. Believe me, there are a lot of weird girls out there, including me and my friends. As for being perverted, me and my friends are guily of that... im contently saying s*exual induendo's and we usually turn everything we do and say into something sickXD. May sound a lil immarture but its fun. If your creepy, hit on every girl you meet then just don't do that but if its just that you say things that are sickminded (s*exual:P) You'll find your group of friends and girls that like you for who you are. I had the same worries as you a few years back but I found my "pose":P Hoped I helped. Fun Mail ME! whoneedsahug Sat, 16 Aug 2008 05:50:54 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/im_wierd_help_me 485825 Re: am I wasting my time? What his last name? You meet him online? Fun Mail Me I'd like to know more to help you out. My ex- Mike Moses, I met online, can't get over me. and I know he talks to a lot of girls he meets randomly on msn and he's told be this. But also says that he can't get over me. whoneedsahug Sat, 16 Aug 2008 05:41:13 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/am_i_wasting_my_time_639 485823 Re: Homesickness during a sleepover? Hey, I was in the same pickle as you... I could sleepover at someones house for a night though...but when I was 15 I went to visit my best friend (she moved) and the plan was that I would stay a month... I got so home sick after a week that I cried myself to sleep everynight and constently had to hold back my tears, and I couldn't handle it so I called my mom and she got be the earliest flight out (stayed a total of two weeks). I felt bad cause I knew I couldn't see my best friend for another year and I felt like a wimp not being able to stay away from my mom for a month when I met her when she moved in with her dad (parents separted) for 6 months... well now that was a year ago. I am now 16 and moving away from my parents (parents bought a cottage restort 3 hours from the city I grew up in- tried school and life up there for 6 months and hated it and missed my friends terribly). I have now been away from my parents for most of the summer and am moved in with my big brother (25) and his girlfriend(30) who own a house in my hometown. So I guess what im trying to tell you is that give it time and you will become less dependant on your parents. You may feel like a wimp but your not... you should feel extremly lucky (and your parents) that you have such a connection and good relationship with them. You still have a few years to enjoy your quality time before u'll have to move on and start your own life. Though I think you will feel ready when that time comes. PLEASE Always keep a good relationship with your parents becuase I have seem to many sad cases of broken families. Need anymore advice? Fun Mail Me:D hoped I helped. whoneedsahug Sat, 16 Aug 2008 05:30:43 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/homesickness 485813 Re: How to give yourself a manicure Ya go buy a set of french manicure guideline tips, some come with the white nail polish some don't. If you want to do a french manicure you need patience and time. I do my nail once a week and have many different colours and styles so if you need anymore advice... Fun Mail Me whoneedsahug Fri, 15 Aug 2008 12:20:46 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_to_give_yourself_a_manicure 484633 Re: Piercing pain? Haha a monroe looks painful... I havn't gotten it done but I know what it is cause I was finding the meaning of my name and it said a "Marilyn or a Monroe" is... lol.. perosnally I wouldn't get it don't... and whats your Tragus? whoneedsahug Thu, 14 Aug 2008 20:33:10 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/pain_15330 483326 Re: Tired of being overweight u aint fat! seriously. im a short girl, 16 only 5 feet and about 105 lbs and your a whole 3 inches taller than me (thats a big difference to me) and only 25 pounds heavier... your only 13 so probably will grow a lot more... when I was 13 I was only 4 feet 8 inches and I grew to 5 feet in those three year and for my and my genetics thats a lot. Also, seriouly, you being as active as you are, eating well you are perfectly healthy and amazing. Come on have a lil confidence that your beautiful. If your worried of not getting a boyfriend, trust me you want one who will take you for who you are... which is on the inside and if he can't see that he's not worth it. Pls take a good look in the mirror and pick 7 thinks that you like about yourself with out picking anything that you don't like. You are your own worst critic. FunMail me. Hope I helped <3 whoneedsahug Thu, 14 Aug 2008 12:18:31 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/tired_of_being_overweight 482471 Re: Fantasies / Sexual Turn Ons / Weird Fetishes Hmm I don't know if this is weird but I love feet... though I know so many people who are feetaphobic I think it would be a turn on to play footsies with a guy I liked. Oh I would love to give them a foot massage (im really good at massages :P)... Is that weird... if so... who cares:D Another thing is im more interested in a guys chest then there butt... :P whoneedsahug Wed, 13 Aug 2008 20:42:42 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/fantasies_sexual_turn_ons_weird_fetishes 481336 Re: I've a crush on my best guy friend Ok girl... I've been in your situation before... with my best friend of nine years... I had the biggest crush on him and like you he would say things that made me think "maybe" but then others that made me thin other wise. He also liked a lot of girls and went out with MANY. But the difference with my situation was that our other best friend and him had a huge history together, and they even had slept together... but basically I was in your situation... I did not have the guts to tell him how I truly felt. and I didn't have the heart to hurt the other best friend... so what happened? nothing. I liked him kept liking him for ages, on and off for 9 years but the last 3 being hard core. I tried to get over him, probably like you have but it harder than it seems. I regret not telling him my true feelings, and now im over him. Though I'd like to say go for it but your dating his best friend... I don't think its right to do that to the other guy, even if your best friend does say yes (which is kinda shallow to his best guys friend), your hurting the other guy. If you are not commited to the person your dating now, don't be with him. your hurting both him and yourself. But I would say don't go for 'Richard' for a while after breaking up with the other guy. I know its long... but feel free to funmail me:P Hope this helps whoneedsahug Wed, 13 Aug 2008 17:23:10 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_ve_a_crush_on_my_best_guy_friend 480992 Re: What do I say to a guy? Ha. I was in the same situation not more than a month ago. Met a guys on facebook. Sweetest. always telling me how amazing and beautiful I am, had to break it off cause he lives 13 hours away from me and im only 16 soo... but we're like best friends now... anyways to your question... when ever my guy said anything sweet id just say "awww ty *blushes*" or "aww your such a sweetheart", or just compliment him right back or send him emoticons of hugs and kisses and hearts. if your on web cam blow him a kiss, make a heart with your hands...I had to do that a lot and it worked fine. Hope I helped. Feel free to funmail me if you need more information. :D whoneedsahug Wed, 13 Aug 2008 09:14:11 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_do_i_say_to_a_guy 480196 Re: Is She Serious or what? I think she just want's to marry you when your happy. She wants her wedding day to be as amazing and stress free but she wants your to be like that too. Marraige is a huge comitment as you know and comes with more trouble and more stress. She doesn't want to put that on you. She'll marry you when life is straigtened out a lil more and less stressful that all, that what I think. Hope that helps. whoneedsahug Wed, 13 Aug 2008 09:05:53 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_she_serious_or_what 480188 Re: What are some good books? LMAO daydreamer, theres only 3 books of Twilight, yes there about 500 large pages. The forth one is comming out Friday, August 1st at Midnight, theres doing a Maquerade Party, dressing up liek they did for Harry Potter, thats how popular it is. And there awsome books! I definatly sujest it. Also V.C Andrews is absolutly amazing, love her. She and older writer, shes dead but her family and friends continued writing in her name. Have you ever heard of "Flowers in the Attic"? well thats her, it was made into a movie (in like the 80's I think) and another was "Rain" that was made into a movie. Umm I've been getting into a lot of Stephen King... hes good to. Hope this Helps... is you want to know more (im a massive book worm) FunMail me:D whoneedsahug Thu, 24 Jul 2008 09:42:32 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_are_some_good_books 444260 Re: Who's your favorite music artist? JACK JOHNSON!!! All the way. And Matt Costa (Jack Johnson got his off the ground) Youtube. Matt Costa Mr.Pitiful, LOVE IT. I also love Death Cab for Cutie, Parmour, Billy Tallent, our Lady Peace, Hedly, My Chemical Romance... want me to keep going?:P whoneedsahug Thu, 24 Jul 2008 09:35:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/who_s_your_favorite_music_artist 444249 Re: What's your all time fave song? Mr. Pitiful by Matt Costa (or Sunshine by him). You may not know him but hes awsome. Jack Johnson kicked started him. Matt Costa belongs to Brushfire Recods created by Jack Johnson. Check it out on youtube! Awsome songs, awsome artist! whoneedsahug Fri, 11 Jul 2008 09:49:10 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/wats_ur_all_time_fav_song 420768 Re: What is the "right" age to start having sex in your opinion? I would say marriage, or atleast above 18... thats my goal. whoneedsahug Fri, 27 Jun 2008 11:14:47 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_is_the_right_age_to_start_having 401103 Re: How do I find a girlfriend? I had the same problem. I aways was self consious and wondering why I couldn't get a boyfriend. But then I met somone I never had felt so strongly for. You'll time will come (I hate that sayinglol but its true) and I that youll be the centre of some girls world someday. whoneedsahug Thu, 26 Jun 2008 12:48:36 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/girlfriend_51086 399839