http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/wastentime en-us Indeed it will come, don't be so anxious it's not that fun to deal with. I understand feeling left out or left behind, but once it starts there's not much stopping it from then on, and you will have to deal with it every month for many years. wastentime Sat, 19 Jan 2008 01:17:45 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/puberty_periods 192761 You might try birth conrol pills. You periods will almost always be regular, like clock work. And cramping and pain seems to be a lot better than without. That's just an idea anyway. wastentime Sun, 25 Nov 2007 03:48:54 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/abnoral_period 143150 You may feel left out. You may think that your boobs haven't developed. If you have pubic hair and you show signs of breast developement. If you get discharge in your panties it wont be long. By the way getting your period is not any fun. It sucks! Sure it might be fun to tell your friends yeah I got it I'm a woman now, but I'd rather do a way with it. wastentime Sun, 25 Nov 2007 03:35:00 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/period_problems_4950 143149 Possibly your hypmen is still in tact and hasn't been broken yet. It sometimes seems difficult and tight and wont go in. wastentime Sun, 25 Nov 2007 03:30:50 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_there_something_wrong_with_me_29 143147 A brush handle with a smooth handle usually works good. Any thing smooth and obviously clean. Some say vegatables like carrots and cucumbers work well. Make sure you wash them. Basically anything round smooth and clean. Don't go to big if you are new or a virgin. Start with something smaller and work your way up. Make sure you are well lubricated or have lubrication will help as well. Have fun and happy exploring. wastentime Sun, 25 Nov 2007 03:25:30 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_me_please_i_need_it_right_away 143146 Because it feels good and it helps stress, pressure and makes for a decent forplay to a good sex session. wastentime Sun, 25 Nov 2007 03:21:17 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_do_peole_finger_eachother 143145 I don't know what the perfect age is. Obviously if you reside in the us they say 18 the legal age. There are so many other countries that have much differernt laws. I don't know if there is a perfect age. I'm not saying a young age is good. Just that it's going to happen despite what you all would like to see or hear about. So in my opinion all you can do is discourage it, but at the same time educate and provide protection for those that seek it, without making a big issue out of it with the parental consent thing. Because it's going to happen, and I'd rather it be safe then unexpected and disease free as well. You religous freaks need to also realize that your son or daughter is not perfect and have urges as well. It is a much different day and age than when you grew up. Again I'm not saying tell them to cut loose, but don't close the door on them either and shut them out. Keep an open mind. Life throughs us all for a loop. wastentime Fri, 09 Nov 2007 02:03:31 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_dont_people_just_wait 128435 It seems the age has progressively gotten lower and lower over the years. Ask your mother, father, grandmother or grandfather, probably not but the age was much more then what it is today. Although there might be a few unusual circumstances, but for the most part the age seems to have reduced substantially over the years. I'm not sure that you can set a specific age. I see mention of 18, well that's fine and dandy but that's not going to happen all the time. Best bet is to educate yourself. Read up on contraceptives, how to prevent diseases and prevent unwanted pregnancy. If you are going to go that route nobody can stop you no matter what we say. Just think twice before jumping into an awkward situation and understand the risks. There is plenty of time. wastentime Mon, 29 Oct 2007 02:25:36 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_is_considered_too_young_to_have 120777 Seems really odd that you could actually have sex with a tampon in. I mean isn't the tampon in your vagina? How did he put his penis in there let alone nut as you say with it in there. This is a totally confusing one that don't make alot of sense. wastentime Mon, 29 Oct 2007 02:02:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/sex_with_tampon 120775 Well you can let it pass or blow over, which it will eventually. Or you can try to make an as's out of the jerk he is. People like gossip whether true or not, and they jump on it and the story gets changed over and over again. Either let it go, lay low and let it pass. You and your close friends will know he is a total jerk. Or a little more risky you can try to make a fool out of him, or make him look like an idiot. Basically give him a taste of his own medicine. This is up to you, and requires a little imagination. Make fun of his penis size whether you know it or not. Mention that I guess if he went in his pants counts then maybe to him we had sex. Something to that nature, that will embarress him and loose accountability with his friends. I'm not saying that is the best route, but an option. Good Luck wastentime Sun, 28 Oct 2007 01:46:50 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/he_said_i_slept_with_him_i_didnt 120232 If it's all natural you really can't it's part of being a woman. Some women secrete more than others. If it's unusual and chunky with itching and a foul oder you may have an infection. But if it's normal secretions with dampness or wetness in your underwear, generally clear with no itching or other discomfort then that's the way it is. If that's the case as mentioned, use thin panty liners, and change your underwear often. Otherwise all you can do is live with it and try your best to deal with it. wastentime Mon, 22 Oct 2007 00:35:03 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/vaginal_discharge_eww 117045 There are some other treatments you might consider. It may also help treat acne, which your mom may or may not buy. wastentime Sun, 14 Oct 2007 02:30:47 -0700 112306 Read the directions, treat and use the condom gently. Make sure it's not old, out of date or sitting in your boyfriends wallet getting wore out. If used properly there is a slim chance. Nothing is 100%, but do use care. Make sure you are well lubricated or turned on and wet. Dryness can ocassioanlly cause it to rip or break. If you are totally freaked out, hey use 2 of them. Never tried it, but what the heck. If you are not affraid or uncomfortable visit your local drug store or similar and get some Spermacide which kills sperm. Put a very small amount inside the tip of the condom, and put a small amount on the outside as well. Be sure your boyfriend removes any air bubbles and make sure it's not super tight, leave some room at the tip for movement. wastentime Sun, 14 Oct 2007 02:05:59 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/sexxx_130533 112305 It's up to you don't give in if you don't want to or are uncomfortable. If there is something you are wanting or other in return that would be a good time to suggest it. Such as I'll give you head if you do my favor. Chances are you'll get what you want. Make sue you get what you want first, because there is a good chance you will get promised and nothing in return. wastentime Sun, 14 Oct 2007 01:51:08 -0700 112301 Everyone is differnt. Are you a virgin for starters. If so maybe your hymen is larger or thicker and tougher than normal. Are you or is he able to insert a finger or fingers with ease. Are you tense or nervous. It could be a number of things, but you should add more details to help determine the issue. wastentime Sun, 14 Oct 2007 01:44:46 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_my_vagina_hole_small 112300 What's the hurry. There is plenty of time for sex. There are plenty of places guys would just jump you as you say, but be careful. You don't want to get beat up and abused. There are some really crazy sick people out there so be very careful. If you can't wait I'm sure you can come up with some decent alternatives. wastentime Sun, 14 Oct 2007 01:37:33 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_want_to_have_sex_84735 112299 Age really don't matter. Everyone has a different opinion of the term slut. Generally it's used with multiple sex partners at the same time, or a large number in a short amount of time. It's not necesarily a bad thing and don't feel shame. But do use protection, and think before you leap. wastentime Sun, 14 Oct 2007 01:32:55 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/am_i_a_slut_for 112296 The magic number is 28, but everyone is different. Sometimes it's irregular or never on the same time. Especially if you are young or if it's your first few periods. It will take a while to really know. wastentime Sat, 13 Oct 2007 01:56:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/hi_i_need_help 111779 Relax, don't get tense, use slenders for starters. Did you read the directions. Although it seems tough and difficult at first once you get the hang of it, only a few seconds. Don't get discouraged, but do relax. wastentime Sat, 13 Oct 2007 01:51:30 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_i_insert_a_tampon_19555 111778 Why would you feel guilty? It's healthy and normal. Sex is just as much as physical and mental as master bation . Don't stress it or worry about it. If your happy, content and comfortable with it who cares. You know what you like, it's good exercise, and it can be a tension/stress reliever as well. wastentime Fri, 21 Sep 2007 10:33:46 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/mastrubation_2941 101669 You may or may not have your hymen whether you mas turbate or not. You could have been born without it, you could have broke it mast urbating or inserting a tampon, even physical activity could have played a part. If you matur bate and you have no discomfort, especially with say anything in width, whether it be more than one finger or something more than an inch or two thick than you probably don't have it anymore. I would say tampons can do it, but they are thin and only like 1/4 inch to a little bigger. A penis is obviously bigger, and if you have inserted more than 1 finger without any discomfort you probably don't have hymen anymore or not much of it left. wastentime Sun, 16 Sep 2007 03:15:43 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/thanks_but_i_have_another 99707 Absolutely not. Of course you don't want to just get a finger shoved in because that might hurt. You want to be at least a little turned on and wet, so it will slip right in. You could practice on yourself, almost all girls do whether they tell you or not, they do. Play with your clitoris and get yourself wet. Once you are nice and wet and well lubricated expiriment with inserting a finger or two, explore yourself and see what can happen and what's going on down there. There is no shame, as I mentioned almost everyone does, they may not tell you but we all do. Then you will be more prepared for getting fingered by your boyfriend and you know what to expect or what to tell him you like. Good luck and have fun. wastentime Sun, 16 Sep 2007 03:04:52 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/fingering_232 99704 Just out of curiousity why are you looking to pop your chrerry? If you really want to deflower or pop yourself if you haven't already it doesn't really matter what you use. Depending on your overall situation and your body, it obviously varies. Generally the cherry you are referring to is not very deep, so if you tried a long skinny candle it's not about length. It's more about width. You need a something fatter or bigger around. It can possibly hurt the first few times, yes but once it's over the barrier you are tryig to break wont play a factor ever again. You can break your cherry using your fingers actually. But if you don't know what you are doing it might be difficult. If you are old enough to have had your period then tampon insertion can sometimes break it too. Otherwise if you are bound and determined to break your own hymen or cherry, with the least amount of discomfort on your own, I would say make sure you are very well lubricated or turned on, nice and wet. If not get some lubricant. Use your fingers and something big around. If well lubricated it should slip in reasonablly well. You will probablly feel some restriction at that barrier, and some discomfort as you procede to break your cherry. It might hurt a bit. And you may get some bleeding from your vagina, and even see some in your panties into the next day. wastentime Sun, 16 Sep 2007 02:47:38 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_this_a_good_way 99703 It depends on how often you take it. If it's a temporary prescription that you haven't takent before then once you stop 1-3 days. If you take it regularly then it plays a factor, more like 5-7 days. If you take it every day for more than 30 days then it will show up in hair drug tests and things to that nature. wastentime Sat, 15 Sep 2007 03:26:15 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/darvocet_84943 99374 Ever think about mas ter bat ion. It's a great alternative to sex, your in control, you know what you like and don't like. If your interested in sex, curious or wondering it's safe practice and it feels real good. wastentime Fri, 14 Sep 2007 10:10:31 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_173887 99089