http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/ufo en-us i don't think she's trying to tease you, she probly just doesn't like it.. it sounds like she's avoiding it because she doesn't want to do it and its difficult for her.. if you care about her, you shouldnt get angry about it... with my girlfriend, i'm completely in love with her and its very similar... i know how confusing it is.. she's tried a couple times, but it didn't last long, but she also has trouble breathing while doing it, so thats part of it... the longest she did it for was when she was drunk, but i felt the same way as you, like i was taking advantage, but she just did it without me asking her.. but that only happened once and i dont expect to happen again.. if thats the easiest way for your gf to do it, then let her if she wants to.. i think it would only be a problem if she's getting drunk all the time just to give you head, then i would back off.. as for the other guy she gave head to.. this may sound weird, but maybe his dick size is alot smaller then yours and it was easier for her... or maybe she was just making it up because she just met you at the time and was afraid you would lose interest if you knew she didn't like it ... it could also be that she had a bad experience before and that she's afraid to tell you.... im not too experienced with relationships, so i hope my advice isn't way off.. but even if its none of those things, try to be understanding... it sounds like she cares alot about you and wants to try even though its hard for her... maybe one day it'll get easier for her, or maybe not... but theres nothing wrong with jerking off when your by yourself and dreaming about it.. maybe thats all you have, and i know it sucks.... but if you love this girl, then theres more to your relationship then just giving and recieving oral .. i dont know how im saying all this because i have alot of trouble sometimes too, but hang in there... ufo Sat, 22 Oct 2005 11:07:00 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_girlfriend_wont_go_down_on_me 4451