http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/tigs en-us Yes, quite often aggressive and angry feelings are as a normal part of your bodies reaction as it is flooded with hormones. The best thing I can advise, and it certainly worked for me, is to bolster your diet with fresh fruit and drink a lot of water. There are calculators available that will assist you in working out how much to drink. Sport or Masturbation are also ways to relieve aggression. tigs Thu, 20 Jul 2006 11:50:41 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/does_anyone_have_any_tips_on_how 16989 Masturbation is a very tough subject. Clearly you dont feel shy about it though so that is the first hurdle out of the way. It is very common for women to Masturbate regularly, so you mustn't feel awkward about it. Firstly, you should not need to buy a lube. You will find that when you are sexually aroused your body will create its own natural lubricant from your vagina, which will provide you with more that enough lubrication. For the most part I suspect that your masturbation will center around your clitoris anyway. My advice is to gently experiment, get to know your own body and what feels good. Let me know if you need any further help. Tigs tigs Wed, 19 Jul 2006 03:03:38 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/masturbation_1325 16900 It is VERY normal for them to grow at different rates, just stay calm and cool :-) Pretty soon you will wonder what all the fuss was about. tigs Wed, 19 Jul 2006 03:00:31 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/breast_problems 16899 Hey :-) The best way to loose weight healthily is with a calorie controlled diet and a strict excercise regime. Can I suggest that you take up a sport which involves hard physical excercise, in addition to watching what you eat a little. You will be fine :-) tigs Wed, 19 Jul 2006 02:58:42 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_can_a_14_year_old_lose_10kg_fast 16898 People age at very different rates nowadays, is this guy a young looking 28?? You also dont say where you are from, but I believe the legal age of consent in the US is 18 as opposed to 16 as it is here in the UK. My advice to you is that if you like the guy and he seems keen on you then by all means pursue it, but be very strict about what you allow him to do with you (and I think you know what I mean) that way you can tell why he really likes you ;-) tigs Tue, 27 Jun 2006 19:26:50 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/sex_with_an_older_man 15364 Sammy, As opposed to the male orgasm, a good deal of the female orgasm is in the brain. Certain hormones, such as those released when you are stressed about things can cause both a dampening of your sex drive (libido) and difficulty in reaching climax. I promise you the majority of your problem is in your stress about reaching orgasm. Let me know if you would like some further advice on mental relaxation techniques, or how to reach an orgasm. tigs Tue, 27 Jun 2006 19:20:46 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_am_agirl_and_i_cant_cum 15363 Its VERY normal to have crushes on other people, its your bodies natural chemical reaction when you feel attraction (and at a base level the desire to reproduce or be intimate) with another person. First of all dont beat yourself up about it, secondly you have to make a decision if you like this guy more than your boyfriend, as if you do you should end things with him regardless as it is not fair to him otherwise. tigs Tue, 27 Jun 2006 19:15:11 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_like_someone_else 15362 Sounds like a player to me, this remember is just advice, but never forgetthat the ex girfriend tends to be the first to get approached during a "dry" spell. you need to consider whether he really has all this love, or is just in need of some sex! tigs Tue, 27 Jun 2006 19:12:44 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/long_lost_ex_boyfriend 15361 You don't say which sex you are to start with, which makes that a kinda impossible question to answer tigs Tue, 27 Jun 2006 19:09:48 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/orgasims_how_can_you_get_them 15360 Im sorry to say that this sounds like dog in a manger syndrome to me, in other words, he doesnt want you, but doesnt want anyone else to have you either :-( My advice, is to steer clear of uys like this, they are only usually like it when they are young and soon grow out of it ;-) tigs Tue, 27 Jun 2006 19:08:51 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/guy_friend_ignored_me_now_i_have 15359 Racheal, Love is a tricky business, and I suspect that you are just beginning to find that out. The question you have to ask yourself is, if you are in Love with this other guy from Seattle, are you really sure that you do truly love your fiancee? In my opinion this is the kind of thing that you really need to talk through with someone. If you are close to your parents then I would advise discussing it with them? Otherwise a close friend, or perhaps even a Neutral, in the UK we have several advicelines you can call to talk to someone neutral, and I have found in my life often just sharing a problem can help. tigs Tue, 27 Jun 2006 19:07:04 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_am_falling_in_love_help_me_make 15358 Love is a very hard thing to clarify my friend. Men, like us, often confuse lust with love, but that is not neccessarily our fault, if you consider human nature we are often only responding to our bodies urges, and hormonal releases, and around that age is a paticularly difficult time for both sexes, personally I cant talk for women, but I know that I thought my first serious girlfriend (at 18 so a touch older than you guys) was the real thing for me, and unfortunately it turned out not to be. I suspect however from the way you speak about her that it could in fact be the real thing. And I truly hope that she is, cause if there is one thing that this world needs more of its love. tigs Tue, 27 Jun 2006 18:45:50 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_think_im_in_love_and_i_and_pretty 15357