http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/thesecolorsdontmatch en-us ..you can't.. thesecolorsdontmatch Fri, 28 Dec 2007 02:25:36 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_u_make_your_period_go_away 169005 why would you want to do that...??? thesecolorsdontmatch Fri, 28 Dec 2007 02:23:34 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/longue_tongue 169003 wow...16 and you havnt started your period before?! jesus christ! :p sorry! yeah you should definitely get a checkup at your doctors. thesecolorsdontmatch Fri, 28 Dec 2007 02:22:39 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/im_revising_my_first_question 169002 lizzylovesyousomuch..that was one creepy answer lol I have been through the same thing...cutting..there is no real way to stop her from doing that. and when she says it's so hard to stop..it's more than that. It's almost addictive, it psychologically makes you think it helps you with your depression. As the others have said, you should spend as much time with her, distract her, get her mind off it. You have no idea, but what she's thinking on a 24/7 basis is how she's not good enough for anyone, she's ugly, she's fat, she's not worthy, nobody likes her..etc.. Don't make her feel bad IN ANY WAY about cutting herself..it's all she can do..it's like the one thing that gives her a sense of control, and it's something she can't really help unfortunately. about..2 years ago...or maybe a year ago I cant really remember anymore... my best friend started cutting herself, she couldn't stop, it was so hard for her...and I didnt understand...I was angry at her for doing that..which was just about the worst thing I could've done...I only made her feel worse I think...but I really did love her, she was/ is such a wonderful person. So after about the third time doing it, I started to panic..and I HAD to find a way to stop her from doing that..then I figured it out. I told her if she did it again...I would cut myself aswell...this is a bit extreme I know, but I cared for her a lot. she didnt believe me, and when she did it again...I came into school with my wrist covered in cuts. I'd share the pain with her, maybe this didnt make her feel so alone..I never really knew...but I knew that she cared about me a lot too...so she didnt want me to do this...so she stopped. I'm not telling you to do this AT ALL! Don't worry! lol But if you care about someone as much to do that, it works. Otherwise all I can say is, make her feel special, make little comments like "I love the way you did that with your hair" or "..you look pretty today". it may seem like it has no effect but those little things stay. My family knows about me cutting myself, but they havnt done anything. lol thesecolorsdontmatch Fri, 28 Dec 2007 02:16:52 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/cutting_2786 168998 well...as everyone says..education comes first! so if your teachers aren't willing to give you the proper education you deserve as overit says...then yes, you should definitely transfer! you can still keep contact with your old friends..even though that'll fade gradually...and the friends you have in high school wont stay in your life for long...you'll meet new people. It's good to start over sometimes...I wish I could.. I say transfer, your education is so much more important than some nice friends you have at school...they wont always be there for you. It's not that hard to make new friends either :) good luck! thesecolorsdontmatch Fri, 28 Dec 2007 02:02:12 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/should_i_stay_or_leave 168986 I soo don't believe marilyn monroe had 6 toes on her right foot! I refuse to believe it! :p there's no such thing! lol -During World War II, condoms were used to cover rifle barrels from being damaged by salt water as the soldiers swam to shore. -Being unmarried can shorten a man's life by ten years. -If someone was to fly once around the surface of the moon, it would be equal to a round trip from New York to London. thesecolorsdontmatch Thu, 27 Dec 2007 09:48:05 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/do_you_have_any_cool_useless_facts 168172 SAW 1, SAW 2, SAW 3, SAW 4 and obviously SAW 5 to come... f***ck I was scared crapless. thesecolorsdontmatch Thu, 27 Dec 2007 08:46:51 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/scariest_movie 168133 ohh you HAVE to go get a pregnancy test noow! thesecolorsdontmatch Thu, 27 Dec 2007 06:52:05 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/missing_a_period_and_i_pregnant 168095 noughts and crosses by malorie blackman go ask alice by {anonymous}- very interesting and eye-opener thesecolorsdontmatch Thu, 27 Dec 2007 06:50:26 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_was_the_best_book_you_ve_ever 168094 lichis! thesecolorsdontmatch Thu, 27 Dec 2007 06:46:01 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/which_is_your_favourite_fruit 168093 k well...I don't know much about this because my parents aren't split..unfortunately (hate my father) anyway...if I put myself in their shoes I can imagine why. If you were only a few months old when they split...everything was easy then...you didn't have much sense and you didnt know your parents, you didnt even know it was happening. most of your friends whose parents have split have lived with their parents until they've grown to a mature age...they've lived and come to love their parents...and they're living in a perfectly happy family everythings great...then suddenly they tell you they're splitting up. Your world falls apart. Who do you decide to live with mostly? choosing between your mom or your dad...who you love both just as much... you don't want the 2 people you love most to fight and hate eachother, or to have to change houses twice a week, you want your family to stay together and you want everyone to be happy. I'm not sure if this is right...but well...that's how I'd feel...if I loved both of my parents. A few years ago I used to love my parents both so much...and I thought if they ever split I would runaway...because I didn't want to have to face this seperation. thesecolorsdontmatch Thu, 27 Dec 2007 06:34:54 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_do_people_get_so_upset_when_parents_41624 168092 ohh heels baby! you feel right sexy in them! haha thesecolorsdontmatch Thu, 27 Dec 2007 03:25:28 -0800 168051 both idiotic thesecolorsdontmatch Thu, 27 Dec 2007 03:21:53 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/which_of_my_two_videos_are_the_best 168049 what are you waiting for by gwen stefani thesecolorsdontmatch Thu, 27 Dec 2007 03:18:41 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/has_anyone_seen_the_new_bring_it 168047 what did he do??? thesecolorsdontmatch Sat, 08 Dec 2007 04:10:24 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_boyfriend_is_in_jail_and_i_love 155027 comooon details baby thesecolorsdontmatch Sat, 08 Dec 2007 01:32:08 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_to_give_a_great_blowjob 154999 and what if you don't trust anyone and scared a psychiatrist wont work? thesecolorsdontmatch Thu, 29 Nov 2007 03:34:46 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/im_suffering_from_depression_help 147208 what were you emprisoned for? I think you defintely cant tell your first date that or you'd freak them out totally. its better if you get to know the girl really well...and once she trusts you..try telling her bit by bit...but only once you think it's the right time. thesecolorsdontmatch Mon, 05 Nov 2007 13:20:39 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/finding_a_girl 125584 ehm first of all...how old are you? and secondly if you really want to wear make-up...when you arrive at school go into the girls bathrooms and apply it, and at the end of school make sure you brought make up remover and take it off before you go home. simple as that. but are you willing to lead a double life JUST for make up? and why wont your parents let you? thats bullsh*t. otherwise there is no way of making yourself LOOK like you have makeup. hell if there was we'd all be doing it. thesecolorsdontmatch Sat, 20 Oct 2007 09:15:28 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/makeup_13343 116117 what is squirting`??? thesecolorsdontmatch Fri, 19 Oct 2007 00:39:38 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/have_a_reached_orgasm 115271 im impressed, well done! mandy you should use them! lol thesecolorsdontmatch Tue, 25 Sep 2007 05:06:48 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/would_you_ever_use_my_lyrics 103233 enticing hehehe thesecolorsdontmatch Tue, 25 Sep 2007 03:34:35 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_rhymes_with_exciting 103219