http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/teneighty en-us It might be embarrasing, but, ask your mom and/or your doctor. Do it anyway. If you have some sort of infection and do nothing about it, the problem will only get worse. teneighty Thu, 02 Jun 2005 22:09:39 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/ouch 2054 Astroglide is the answer. The condoms won't matter as long as they are electronically tested, which is most major brands. You will not stretch her out. That does not happen. I can tell you this because my wife is still tight after two babies. You are hurting her not because two fingers are too big for her hole. It is because she is not relaxed / wet enough. You will need to do tons of foreplay for this to correct itself naturally. Otherwise you will always be depending on the lube. teneighty Thu, 02 Jun 2005 22:06:52 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/gf_is_still_really_tight_anyway_to 2052 do not keep the baby. definitely get an abortion. your life will be ruined forever if you have a kid at 15/16 years old. the real question is... why the hell didn't you use some sort of protection like maybe uhhhh a CONDOM ??? and what the hell are you doing at 15 having sex anyhow? teneighty Thu, 02 Jun 2005 22:02:32 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/im_pregnant_who_should_i_tell_first 2051 I hope you swallowed. No need for all that to go to waste rubbing on your pants.... teneighty Thu, 02 Jun 2005 21:59:49 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/blow_job_then_fingered_possible_pregnancy 2050 size doesn't matter. it's what you do with it. and at 16 that shouldn't be much. teneighty Thu, 02 Jun 2005 21:55:32 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/penis_size 2048 you should do it. everyone else cheats. why the hell not? teneighty Thu, 02 Jun 2005 21:50:48 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/want_to_have_an_affair 2047 Despite what you may have heard elsewhere... Addiction is not a disease. It is a controllable behavior. If you want to quit something badly enough it can be done. The key is in the "wanting to" part once someone has acknowledged there is a problem. seek professional help. it is unlikely you would be able to resolve this on your own. teneighty Tue, 29 Mar 2005 23:43:52 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/when_is_it_okay_to_get_a_divorce 1759 try a vibrator on your own so you can find the exact spot that works for you, then tell your man where that is once you've discovered it. there is no harm in making toys a part of your activity when you're not alone, by the way. you can't cum if you are putting pressure on yourself to come. RELAX!!! teneighty Tue, 29 Mar 2005 23:32:53 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_cant_cum_can_any_one_help_me_please 1758 They might break because you're not putting them on right. You're supposed to squeeze the air out of the reservoir tip. Read the instructions... I don't mean to make light of that but this factor is part of the reason for failure of condoms. If they are really too tight you can buy larger size, however, they are supposed to be somewhat snug or they won't do what they are designed to do. If you get them too big you'll be having sex with the condom, not the woman. teneighty Tue, 29 Mar 2005 23:29:27 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_use_trojans_but_they_039_re_always_319 1757 There are products you can purchase which contain benzocaine. This will numb you a bit down there but it will make you last longer. You have your choice between some creams/lotions you would rub on (a TINY BIT) before sex. I think one is called "ManDelay" or something like that. Or you can try the Durex condoms ("Lasting Pleasure" I think is the name). Walmart sells them. One warning though.... The condoms had too much benzocaine for me. I didn't have a problem lasting long but I wanted to relive the old days when I could do marathon sessions (1 hour or so). I've tried a dozen or so times with these condoms. On every occasion my wife told me to pull the condom off so we can finish because I was lastimg TOO long. The numb sensation lasts awhile so be prepared to still be hard afterwards. Good luck. teneighty Tue, 29 Mar 2005 23:25:54 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/iam_coming_so_fast_any_one_help_pls 1756 talk to your mom as much as possible on this topic. communication is key. 16 is too young for sex. you should wait a few years. teneighty Tue, 29 Mar 2005 23:08:24 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/sex_at_16_just_a_condom_is_that_enough 1754 You'll be visiting a gyno regularly for most of the rest of your life. Get over your fears and do the exam. You need to know whether everything down there is working anyway, right? As for birth control, you should get it now matter what the hassle. Just thing of how it would be to get pregnant when you don't want to. Then you'd be making an even bigger decision on what to do and it is likely that the guy would be gone quicker than you can say "I'm pregnant." Think HARD before becoming sexually active at a young age. It's pretty likely that if you build things up to be a huge deal with lots of pressure and your nerves kicking in, you will be let down by the experience and the guy will not stick around. Just my opinion but I think people should wait until 18+ / college for sex. You have to learn a lot about life itself at that age, especially if you are going away to school. That's the perfect time to experiment. By the way, condoms break occasionally, so you're on the right track looking into pills or whatever else. teneighty Tue, 29 Mar 2005 23:02:01 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/quot_the_exam_quot_required_to_get 1753 he is bored with you and somewhat disturbed. move on. some guys get so involved with their porn that they ignore that real person right next to them. teneighty Tue, 29 Mar 2005 22:48:31 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/does_he_not_want_me 1752 Trust me because I know from first hand experience. Do not get involved/married to someone whose family doesn't like you / you don't like their family / your family doesn't like your mate / etc. DO NOT DO IT. Cut your losses and move on. These things will come back to bite you in the ass later, especially if you are married, have children, etc. I know it will be hard to do but you will save yourself lots of trouble later by cutting it off now and finding someone else. I don't want to get into why I know about this but trust me, it is bad news. teneighty Tue, 29 Mar 2005 22:46:27 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_boyfriend_who_i_love 1751 Trust me because I know from first hand experience. Do not get involved/married to someone whose family doesn't like you / you don't like their family / your family doesn't like your mate / etc. DO NOT DO IT. Cut your losses and move on. These things will come back to bite you in the ass later, especially if you are married, have children, etc. I know it will be hard to do but you will save yourself lots of trouble later by cutting it off now and finding someone else. I don't want to get into why I know about this but trust me, it is bad news. teneighty Tue, 29 Mar 2005 22:46:10 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_boyfriend_who_i_love 1750 move out of west virginia. do NOT act on this. bad news bad news. I can't even believe you would ask for advice on something like this. teneighty Tue, 29 Mar 2005 22:40:49 -0800 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_have_feelings_for_my_cousin 1749 she thinks you are a slut and she wants her son to be a nice little virgin. OR she knows he's a horny bastard and wants to prevent him from getting laid. either way you lose. move on. teneighty Wed, 04 Jun 2003 23:55:19 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_boyfriend_039_s_mom_hates_me_for 175 you sound like you're 13 years old. keep things the way they are now. you are too young to be doing this sex stuff. teneighty Wed, 04 Jun 2003 23:52:43 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/spending_no_time_on_that_one_kiss 174 If you need to ask "should I cheat" you don't deserve the girl you have. The girl at work is not attracted to you, you just think she is because you want to F___ her. Whack off in the shower and buy your wife some flowers for no good reason. teneighty Wed, 04 Jun 2003 23:50:30 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/should_i_cheat_on_my_wife_why_not 173 uhhh SENIOR TRIP??? Does this mean you are in high school? DO NOT GET MARRIED if you are less than 25 years old. You will end up getting divorced for sure, kids or not. Trust me. Wait until you are older. teneighty Wed, 04 Jun 2003 23:44:02 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/is_it_ok_for_a_girl_to_ask_a_guy 172 In a word, move on. Don't marry someone not sexually compatible with you. Without going into a lot of detail, I can tell you from experience that it isn't easy to live with that situation in the house. And as time goes on it gets way worse. Then if you have kids you won't leave her because you won't want your children's lives to be affected. There are too many divorces in this world. Make the lawyers poor. Don't marry her. teneighty Wed, 04 Jun 2003 23:39:56 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/trapped_in_a_sexless_relationship 171 1) he's telling you that you look good because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. show him you will make the effort to lose the rest of the baby weight. 2) have a discussion about BIRTH CONTROL and use it. 3) your situation might change slightly now that your child is a little older and you're actually getting a full night's sleep 4) MOST IMPORTANTLY, you need to communicate with each other. confront the issue head-on. it might be painful but in the long run you will be better off. teneighty Wed, 04 Jun 2003 23:30:06 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/please_i_need_someones_help 170 Give him head before sex. You sound like you're both young enough that he'd have more than one bullet in the gun, so to speak. Most men last much longer on round 2. Also, he is nervous since this is new to him and might get performance anxiety if you focus on his "minuteman" issue too much. teneighty Wed, 04 Jun 2003 23:24:34 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_new_boyfriend_cums_too_early 169 Get a Kama Sutra videotape. It will teach you both to make the whole thing last longer which in turn usually helps the woman a bit. You might feel ridiculous at first but it works for many people. teneighty Wed, 04 Jun 2003 23:21:47 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_do_females_have_a_hard_time_having 168 the real question is... did you get really fat and then not lose the weight after your pregnancy? That could be the reason, but you didn't mention your physical attributes in your message. To be honest, it's really tough on men to be saddled with so much responsibility at such a young age. Although it is possible he's playing around, I think you would have figured that one out at some point during your pregnancy. I think it's more likely the above issue (your physical condition) or that he doesn't want kid #2 right now. Gee, maybe you ought to use some birth control.... teneighty Wed, 04 Jun 2003 23:19:38 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_husband_doesn_039_t_want_to_have 166