http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/tamarahurst en-us You CANNOT be pregnat from sex a year and a half ago...What are you doing having sex at 13 (If you had sex over a year and a half ago!!!) And, also, what do you mean you only have months till your baby is born!!?!?! tamarahurst Wed, 03 Oct 2007 14:37:57 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/could_i_be_pregant 107336 are you sure it's your girlfriend and not your cousin!!?!? tamarahurst Thu, 27 Sep 2007 12:50:13 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_do_i_499 104226 You cannot go around doing stuff like that with your cousin! It it AGAINST THE LAW!!!, and even if it was completley legal, it's NASTY! She's your cousin, your family, your blood!!! tamarahurst Thu, 27 Sep 2007 12:42:28 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_if_this_happened 104223 UMMM...NOOO!! That is against the law!, It's called incest!!! I'm sorry, but if you do, that is really NASTY!!! If you got her pregnant, your baby could have problems!!! TELLL HER NOOO!!! tamarahurst Thu, 27 Sep 2007 12:40:37 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_145 104221 I went through the same thing, except it wasn't a family member, and I didnt tell my mom for a year and a half.. and I wouldn't have told her, but my best friend did because she was worried about me. You have to tell someone because you need the proper counselling to get all your emotions out, and to learn how to deal with the "pitty" (Even though its not really pitty, people will just want to help you) And, whether he remembers or not (Which he probably does), it doesnt matter. What he did was wrong and you deserve to get through it. If you do not get the proper councelling now, it can affect you later on in life, with relationships, work, when you decide to have kids. Please get some help and tell your mom. If you do not feel comfortable telling your mom, then tell someone you do feel comfortable with. Good luck tamarahurst Wed, 26 Sep 2007 13:27:56 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/raped_please_help 103764 Eating only special k does not make you lose weight...you have to eat properly and exercise. If you are really interested in losing weight, I would speak to my doctor about that, and they can guide you to the kind of diet you should be on... tamarahurst Wed, 26 Sep 2007 13:23:23 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_can_i_stop_my_sister_eat_my_special 103760 For one, you should not be having a baby! You shouldnt even be having unprotected sex at 14 or 15... and sorry to tell you this, but I doubt you were pregnant at 14 and lost it, because anyone that lost a baby, would not type the story like it's a joke... grow up tamarahurst Wed, 26 Sep 2007 13:17:18 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/pregnancy_433 103749 Ummm, I really don't think it's a good idea for you to be having a baby at 15... Yeah, you have a job, but it's minimum wage (you cant raise a baby on that), and sorry to tell you this, but you're mom must be an idiot for telling you that it's a good idea for you to have a baby. You say that you're going to finish school, but I highly doubt you will with a new baby. What about all you're friends, and hanging out with them... you can't do that with a baby! Wait about 5 years then, when you're ready, have a steady job, done school and are with the right guy, then that might be a good time... tamarahurst Wed, 26 Sep 2007 13:10:47 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/praegnancy 103743 In a way I would like to say yes, let her go and discover what it's like to be an adult in a adult world, but in a way I would also like to say no. Because, it sounds like they are in a stage where they want to "play house"... and they don't realize what living alone at such a young age really contains. "They will have no freedom, cause there will not be a live-in-babysitter anymore, she will probably not finish school, and eventually, he will get tired of having a child around, and he'll probably leave your daughter with nothing. tamarahurst Wed, 26 Sep 2007 13:04:02 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/17_year_old_too_young_to_move_out 103737 Try and find a clinic where they have all day programs for mother-to-be, or people that are thinking about having kids. Sometimes they will give you a doll for the day, a doll that cries, poohs, pees, needs to be fed, needs to be burped... And, there is no way to shut them off, cause everytime you leave the baby cry, or in a dirty diaper, it records it to show how much attention you pay, and how much patients you have. Trust me, after that, she won't want babies for a very long time tamarahurst Thu, 20 Sep 2007 07:55:59 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/my_friend_is_14_and_wants_a_baby 101213 I don't know why you are worrying about your chest... you are only 15, trust me, you will grow. If you're anything like me, you'll wake up one morning with HUGE boobs that you never wanted. Until I was about 14, i had a 34 a, then (what felt like one day) I got up, and they were a 36c... Now i'm wearing a 34 D and they are killing my shoulders and my back. Your size is fine.. tamarahurst Thu, 20 Sep 2007 07:53:08 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/are_my_boobs_small_med_big 101211 It is not a myth. My boyfriend and I have a wonderful sex live, and I c*m all the time!!! tamarahurst Wed, 19 Sep 2007 10:36:59 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/why_cant_i_have_orgasims 100873 Some woman start to see or feel signs of pregnany upto 10 days after conception. You should see a doctor, or get a Home pregnany test. The best time to take the test is first thing in the morning, right when you get up. tamarahurst Wed, 19 Sep 2007 10:31:40 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/when_should_i_get_symptoms 100872 We already have a house. tamarahurst Wed, 19 Sep 2007 09:19:20 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/wanting_a_baby_at_18 100845 I would not reccomend using nair "down there"... Obviously shaving can cause irritation, but nair has chemicals that help the hair come out easier, and if it gets inside, it could be dangerous. If you really do want to shave, maybe you should do what I do. Use an unscented soap.. It's specially designed for sensitve skin, and trust me, down there is VERY sensitive... tamarahurst Sat, 15 Sep 2007 13:11:49 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/shaving_down_there_4_girls 99514 Thank you very much... But does anyone else have any advice for me??... tamarahurst Sat, 15 Sep 2007 13:08:59 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_have_missed_my_period 99513 I dont know about dollar store pregnancy tests... I've never gotten one from there. But, for about 10 dollars you can get a pretty good one from any drugs store, or department store that has a pharmacy section. And, if you do think you are pregnant, please don't wait to find out, or dont be embarrassed to go and buy one, or talk to your doctor, cause if you wait, it could end up bad for yourself and the baby. It's best if you find out ASAP, because you need to take the right precautions to make sure everything is okay..ex- vitamins and stuff like that. That is stuff that only your doctor can tell you about. If you're unsure about what to do, you should talk to your mom, school counsellor or anyone you feel comfortable with. Trust me, it will be better in the end. Good Luck tamarahurst Sat, 15 Sep 2007 13:08:17 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/pregnancy_test_3199 99512 It doesn't really sound like you are pregnant... It sounds likeyou might have hurt something inside of you! You should really go and see a doctor, because if it isnt already causing problems, it could down the road. And, if you are pregnant, you have to go and see a doctor because you have to go through the proper procedures to make sure that you and your baby are healthy. Good luck tamarahurst Sat, 15 Sep 2007 10:32:57 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/are_these_symptoms_of_being_pregnant 99473 You might want to tell your mom that you lied about how old he is, and mattie101 is wrong, once he is 18 he can be charged by your parents if they want, it's something called statutory rape... you may have concented, but you are still under the legal age... if he's 18 and you're only 14 or 15 you're parents can have a lot to say about it. tamarahurst Fri, 14 Sep 2007 08:36:06 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/4_and_pregnant_i_think 99063 Sorry to burst your bubble, but in a situation like this, there is nooo way to get through to her no matter how good your relationship is with her. The same thing happened to me a few years back before I met the boyfriend i've been with for 2 years. My ex was lazy, nomotivation whatsoever, and when my parents told me not to see him, I saw him more, when they told me I wasn't allowed at his house, I took off for weeks at a time. Then, I woke up... and she will too. Just give her some space, as long as he isnt interfering with her school, and job(if she works), then it will be okay.. Either, she's get over him and get on with her life, or hey, maybe she'll change him, maybe he'll want to be a better person for her. But she has to figure it out on her own.. The more you nag at her, you'll just push her further and further away, and she'll go to him. If you don't want that, then just leave it and see where it goes. But chances are she'll see clearly probably sooner than later, just like I did! tamarahurst Thu, 13 Sep 2007 11:14:49 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/17_year_old_daughter 98603 Sorry, but there is nothing you can eat or drink to lose your baby. And, depending on how far along you are now,you may not even be able to get an abortion(You can only do it up to 2 or 3 months.. I'm not 100% positive) So, you are going to have to make a big desicion... Either, you keep the baby, maybe you're parents will help, the boys family, or you give birth and put it up for adoption. But the adoption process will have to be started soon, or you may get attached once the baby is here,and you wont want to give it up. One more thing though, why are you having sex at 13, and why are you having unportected sex at 13, didn't anyone teach you the concequences!!! I don't want to sound like your mother or anything like that, and it is totally up to you whether you want to keep or give it up for adoption, but if you are "mature" enough to have sex (UNPROTECTED) Then you should be able to own up to your mistakes and take care of the baby... It would be like if you killed someone and expected not to go to jail, you are obviously going to go. Whether you keep the baby or not.. be smart next time. tamarahurst Thu, 13 Sep 2007 11:09:01 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/what_should_i_do_43 98602 I will, as soon as you stop posting stuff on things that concern me... thank you tamarahurst Fri, 31 Aug 2007 14:12:09 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/could_i_be_pregnant_2015 93090 I already said, I would really appreciate if you stopped posting on here. I don't need you to tell me what is right and what is wrong. That is why I have my own doctor. Have a nice life angelfire. You keep arguing, and i'm not going to argue with someone that I dont even know. tamarahurst Fri, 31 Aug 2007 10:24:58 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/could_i_be_pregnant_2015 93012 Thank you very much deepthinker! angelfire2708 just has her panties in a bunch, and I would appreciate it if she stopped writing on here.. She has nothing better to do than sit around look up things on the internet and pretend to be wise and everything!! And deepthinker is right, pregnacy is different for every woman.. tamarahurst Fri, 31 Aug 2007 08:40:27 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/could_i_be_pregnant_2015 92989 Hello, hotnsassy I don't want to sound like your mom or anything like that, but if he forced himself onto you like that, and came inside of you, you should tell someone. I know that it's hard, I've been through it. But, in the end it's better. If you know him, you can out him away and stop him from doing it to another woman. You see, I never knew the person who did it to me, so I don't know how many people he's done this too. You'll also be able to get counseling and stuff, and if you are pregnant, go to the doctor, don't wait around... I didnt know I was pregnant at the begining of the year, and I ended up having a miscarriage 3 months along cause I never went to the doctor. Hope everything goes good!!! tamarahurst Thu, 30 Aug 2007 15:18:27 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/can_u_feel_when_a_boy_cumz_inside_47723 92706