http://www.funadvice.com/my/advice/sunflowermom en-us Just encourage him that's ok *correction: Just encourage him that it's ok. sunflowermom Sat, 27 May 2006 08:43:47 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_my_son_is_not_potty_trained 13839 Considering he's good in reading and math I'm guessing he's around 5 or 6? Maybe not. My son didn't potty train until he was 4. There's a time when they're ready. Since he has special needs it may take a little longer. If he's absolutely not interested let it go for a little while. Or if he has a father have him go in with his father. Let his father talk to him. If not I'd just wait. He'll tell you when he's ready and most likely he's not. He still has that feeling that he's losing something he's not supposed to be. Just encourage him that's ok. Bringing in a doctor or therapist is a good idea but you might freak him out a little. Good Luck! sunflowermom Sat, 27 May 2006 08:42:17 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/help_my_son_is_not_potty_trained 13838 woops... not done. i adopted the older ones a few yrs ago. hes not their father. he cant have custody of them. the younger ones are his and theyre 4 and 2. sunflowermom Tue, 16 May 2006 16:26:00 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/they_want_custody_of_my_babies 13340 my kids are 6 and 8 sunflowermom Tue, 16 May 2006 16:23:22 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/they_want_custody_of_my_babies 13339 Wash your a hair and bleach it the day before you dye. The next day use a blonde hair dye. Leave it in for half the time and use the conditioner. DONT USE SHAMPOO! The conditioner is supposed to do two things. One-make your hair shinier and Two-keep it from drying out. The next day when you take a shower use a little bit of shampoo and the same conditioner. Not a whole lot, though. That's all the advice I've got. :) Good Luck with that. sunflowermom Fri, 12 May 2006 14:59:09 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/dying_brown_hair_blonde 13147 What do you want to do? While a lot of people are against abortion and are convinced you can do without, it's your choice in the end. But have you looked into the other options? Like adoption? I'm not going to say the usual "there are a lot of couples who can't conceive a child who would love to be your babies parents" but think about it. Theres also open-adoption? I agree with rt88, I wouldn't let your boyfriend raise the child, unless you really trust him, if you care anything about the little one growing inside of you. If you changed your mind and don't want an abortion, heres a happy thought. 18 yrs from now your child will be turning into an adult, graduating highschool and leaving you for college. Then you'll be a grandma and you'll have not only one of your babies saying "Mom, Thank you and I love you!!" but you'll have other babies saying "Grandma, I love you!!" And as a mother to two, hearing those soft words of appreciation for all you do is the best thing you could ever hear. sunflowermom Sun, 30 Apr 2006 07:48:27 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/i_want_an_abortion_but_he_wants_the 12375 Well, I told him I was going to file for divorce before he filed for divorce and he freaked out and yelled that was ok because atleast he had someone. And he also informed me he wasn't going to visit. I told him that was fine. He doesn't have to visit. His names not on the kids' birth certificate and I wouldn't have let him see them anyways. So. She's pregnant. 4 months. She turned 18 2 months ago. They're getting married in 21 days. She'll be Mrs. Veronica Blahblahblah. Anyways. Thanks. I was going to do that to start with but I wasn't sure if I should. sunflowermom Thu, 27 Apr 2006 21:07:51 -0700 http://www.funadvice.com/q/he_s_cheating_on_me_with_my_goddaughter 12288